The New Me, Celina P.

Bubbles in Her Hair

2010-03-14T20:07:00.003-05:00

Fragile, delicate sphere.
Gently perched on a blond strand.
She runs, she laughs. Still you cling.
So precious and she doesn't even notice.
Another lands on the next strand.
You touch and cling to each other.
She reaches up. What is that? POP.

Mobile Me

2010-03-04T22:12:00.005-06:00

So here we are. The times are changing and I am writing my first "mobile" blog post. A few weeks ago I caved to the technology and bought an iPhone. I must admit: I LOVE this thing! So far, I haven't found a single thing that I want it to do that it can't. It has become my newest obsession and greatest distraction. I am constantly finding, thinking up, or listing ideas for new apps and songs.
With this small device, I am able to check my email, update facebook (and upload photos), get directions and a map, check on movie showtimes, and apparently BLOG! AND, I can do all this while carrying a phone conversation! I mean, WOW!
So, I will now go to bed. I *heart* thisphobe, but I still need my beauty rest.

Wham, Bam, Thank You Ma'am

2010-02-22T21:19:00.002-06:00

How does anybody find a good doctor these days? Today I had my annual doctor's visit. I've been seeing this doctor for almost 3 years (minus the 9 months I was pregnant and seeing a midwife) and she's nice. But, every time I go in, I feel rushed and shorted. The nurse takes vitals, hands over the gown, doc comes in, asks general questions, does the exam, any questions, and I'm out of there. This visit was no different. But, this time we discussed a DTaP booster (for Tetanus and Pertussis). I decided that, yes, sure I'd take the vaccine. Well, we finished up the exam, went over a few things, and signed off on paperwork. On my way out, I asked the receptionist where I needed to go to gert the shot. She said, "You already got it." Um, no, I'm pretty sure I would know if I got a shot, "Nope." Her: "Well, she circled here saying that you did." Me: "Nope. She asked if I wanted it, I said yes, and that was all." Her: "Oh, well, I need to go talk to her." So, I had to go back to the waiting room to wait for her. The nurse came out to get me, apologized, and gave me the shot. She said that the doctor did not tell her that I was getting a shot. On my way out, I heard the doctor tell her, "Oops, my bad."

So, yeah. A 20 minute drive from work. 10 minutes in the waiting room. 15 minutes with the doctor (who still managed to forget that I needed an immunization). Another 5 minutes in the waiting room. 1 shot in the arm. 20 more minutes back to work. I suppose this is what our healthcare system is coming to.

A Slight (Game) Obsession

2010-02-16T21:45:00.003-06:00

A few months ago I was introduced to the "Apps" on Facebook. That is, a list of games that can be played with all of your Facebook friends. The more you play, the faster you advance, earning money, raising pets, growing cotton, baking soufle and fighting in a mafia. For probably the past year, I had been receiving neighbor requests, gifts of food, animals, and untraceable cell phones, but I just ignored all of them... until this past fall.

By the time it was over, I had opened my own theme park, established a booming restaurant, danced with old friends, joined a mafia, and developed acres of bare land into a thriving farm. But, the late night obsessing has gotten to be too much. Some games only kept me interested for a few days, others a few weeks, but there are a few that have gotten me to the point of scheduling crop growth, meal prep, and energy packs around my day-to-day routine! I've become one of *those people* who clog up everbody's news feed with my obsession! I don't want to be that person. I want to get back on schedule and be in bed by 9 (pushing it tonight). I want to stop being preoccupied with the computer when my girl just wants me to play "Little People" with her.

So, I've whittled it down to the last one (which was also the first and most obsessed). I'm "cleaning up" my farm and getting ready to call it quits. Cold turkey. Cows will be waiting to be milked, plots are plowed and ready for planting, and my fruit trees will be abundant, but I will not play.

What is it about us that we become so caught up in a virtual world that we lose track of time? Can I really just stop with the games? Sure. Now I just need to remember to block the applications from my news feed and inbox. I can do it!

All About the Girl

2010-02-02T22:12:00.005-06:00

My girl is getting to be so grown up. This week she will be 14 months old. Tonight we had three of her favorite foods for dinner: macaroni and cheese, hot dogs, and beans (baked beans). It got me to thinking that I've been meaning to post about my amazing little girl. So, here goes.

Last week she was moved up to the toddler class at her daycare. She started in the infant room when she was only 9 weeks old, on February 9, 2009. The requirements for her to be moved were: walking steady, no pacifier, and no bottle. Well, she gave up the bottle at 11 months (she loves her sippy cup), she only uses the Binky (pacifier) at bedtime, and she started walking (at home) one week before her 1st birthday. The only thing holding her back was that she absolutely refused to walk (without holding on) at school! Well, the 2 boys who are near her age (one is 1 week older, the other 1 week younger) were walking steady by mid-November, so they moved to the toddler class at the beginning of January. I guess my girl missed her friends, because once they left, she stopped walking (even at home) for a full week! After talking it over with her teachers and the daycare director, we decided to give her a try in the toddler class. Well, on the first day she was walking like a pro! Now, she doesn't even want to go in the infant room (at the beginning and end of the day). She's also walking everywhere else--when visiting family, around the stores, to the mailbox, yes she wants to walk everywhere!

She's also a fan of the park. We have a tiny playground in our neighborhood and I try to let her play for a little while when we get home (before dinner). Right away, she climbed up the steps, sat at the top of the slide, flipped onto her belly, and slid right down!

This girl loves animals and doesn't shy away from any animal--no matter the shape or size! She loves to laugh and point when the cats do something funny and gets so excited anytime she sees somebody with a dog. One of our cats is so wonderful with her, letting her pull her tail, poke her hears, and even lay on top of her. The other discreetly walks away anytime she sees the baby coming her way.

It's so incredible to realize that my world revolves around this one tiny little person. This amazing, stubborn, funny, daring, smart, miniature version of ME.

Real Estate Trials

2010-01-31T22:39:00.004-06:00

Richard and I have lived in our condo for just over 2 years. When we purchased this place, the bank approval was based on my income alone, and we didn't have intentions of having kids so soon. Now that Richard has a steady income and we have a kid... yeah, space, an extra room, and a yard would be great. Also, our property taxes raised drastically and our HOA fees increased, so we are paying a significant amount more than when we first moved in.

We put the condo on the market almost 5 months ago. In that time, we've only had 2 people come in to look at the place! The neighborhood is okay and we're on the 2nd floor (added safety & security). We've done a lot of work (painted all rooms, added ceiling fans to bedrooms & living room, removed popcorn from main rooms' ceilings, the carpet is 2 years old, and completely remodeled the bathroom) and we get compliments from visitors all the time. We are priced around the same as comparable condos and we're listed through a large company. So, what is the problem? Well, with all of the crap that happened with the real estate companies, forclosures, bank bail-outs, and etc, the regulations have changed. It is harder for people to get approved for loans on condos!

We've been pre-approved for another mortgage and if we don't sell the condo, we have to have 6 months of payments in the bank (do-able) and the down payment for a new house (also do-able). We'd also have to have tenants with a 2-year lease AND receive enough rent to cover the mortgage and HOA fees (not likely). We can afford these payments ourselves, but it really is just too much for this place! Especially when you crunch the numbers and realize that if somebody bought the condo for our asking price, their mortgage payment would would be about 1/3 less than what we're paying!

The worst (or best) part is that there are SO MANY awesome houses in nice neighborhoods--that we could actually afford! If it weren't for us being stuck in this condo, we could be looking at 3-4 bedroom houses with 2 car garages and nice yards! I don't even want to look, though, because it would be hard to find something that I really love and not have all of our other "ducks in a row." Now we're starting to look at other options... so, hopefully we'll be able to figure something out soon.

Making Sacrifices

2010-01-25T21:36:00.002-06:00

When you come to a point where you must decide which sacrifices are worth it, how do you know which is the right choice? Here's where I'm going with this: Richard has an opportunity to take a job closer to home (in Rio Rancho). But, if he takes it, he will also take a major pay cut. At his current out-of-town job he makes an hourly wage PLUS per diem (which cover living expenses with lots of surplus). The job in Abq would be the same hourly rate without the per diem. Also, he may be cut back up to 8hrs each week.

If he takes the job, he will be back home with us. He'll be able to spend all week with his family and see all the "little moments" in Isabella's growing up.

Being away all week is hard, but now is probably the best time because Isabella is young enough to not realize or be too deeply affected by her daddy being gone. It is obvious that she loves him and she gets so excited to see him the morning after he gets home! But, she doesn't wander the house all week looking for him--like he's "missing."

So, is it worth the sacrifice of missing out on the day-in day-out of her baby-hood to save up more money and get ourselves in a better financial situation. Or, will we regret all this time that he's missing out and wish that we had done thing differently? It's not necessarily a choice between work/money and family/Isabella, because he does spend the weekends with us and we make enough money to cover bills and still have fun (either way).

I think we're leaning towards temporarily postponing the move back, to try to put more money aside in savings. And, by the end of the summer, he'll be ready to come home (1 year after starting the job). Any thoughts, opinions, stories of your own?

Sick Baby

2010-01-19T22:42:00.002-06:00

Came home early to take care of a sick baby... again. The poor girl had a fever of 101.2 at daycare which meant I had to pick her up early AND she can't go into daycare tomorrow, either. I'm so fortunate to have family nearby. My sister is spending the night tonight and will stay home with her tomorrow. I'll still have to come home early, but at least I won't have to take a whole day off. It's not really a big deal to take off a day, except that I only have about 3 days worth of leave and I am essentially a single parent from Monday through Friday.

She had been doing so good and hadn't been sick since early December. Before that, she went back and forth between colds, ear infections, diarrhea, and the flu for 4 months! During those 4 months, we were a tthe doctor's office every 2-3 weeks! Of course, she is a "daycare baby," so it's bound to happen (and probably a good thing for the building of a strong immune system), but I really hate for her to be sick.

Here's to hoping she gets a good night sleep, gets enough vitamin C, and feels better SOON! Goodnight.

You and me, baby

2010-01-17T22:25:00.002-06:00

This week will mark 7 months since Richard started his out-of-town job. His previous employer was hit hard with the recession and had to cut almost 90% of their employees. Richard had only been there 6 months, so we were fortunate that they didn't cut him sooner. But, it was an unbelievable feeling when he called me at lunch on a Friday to tell me that he was "already home." He had gone in to work at 7, like usual, helped with some odd jobs around the office, and was told "we're sorry to do this, but you're going to have to go home." All this 3 months after Miss Isabella was born, and 3 weeks after I started back at work (added expense of full-time daycare)! Fortunately, Richard still had his business license to continue "The Handyman" jobs. That kept him busy for 4 months while he applied for new jobs and finally found his way to the Electrical Union. Since he was new to the Union, he tested into a job and scored an 8 (on a 1-8 scale)! The only thing higher than an 8 is Journeyman (and you have to have so many hours of experience before you can even take that test)! Awesome achievement for Richard, but a bit of hinderance on the job front: Level 8 positions are hard to come by. The best idea we could come up with was for him to take a job out-of-town. So he took the job. It is in a town at the far southeast corner of the state and almost 6 hours driving.

When Richard first left, we didn't see him for 3 weeks, then 2 weeks! Then we met him in Mississippi for a mini-family vacation of 10 days. For a few more months, he would come home every 2 weeks. By October, he started Union classes and has to be home every weekend, so he gets home late Thursday/early Friday and goes back south late Sunday. Now, he also has classes every other Saturday, so some weekends, we only see him for a few hours Saturday night and Sunday afternoon.

It's tough. He misses out on a lot of Isabella's firsts (I take lots of pictures & videos) and we have to carefully plan out weekends when we want to do things as a family. I have also made major adjustments to my daily routine and had to figure out how to work things out with just me and the baby. I'm still working full-time, the baby goes to daycare, and I get a hot meal on the table every night. Some days (weeks) take every ounce of energy, patience, and prayer that I have just to drag through. Some days I have to pinch myself to know that this amazing life is mine--this precious girl, caring and supportive husband, and all the other blessings that get me through the day.

I never imagined life like this: Me home alone with a baby all week, getting up for midnight feedings, changing never-ending diapers, making decisions based only on my best judgments. Richard, 6 hours away, in an apartment with 3 other guys, doing his own grocery shopping, laundry, and housecleaning. But, we're making it work. Eventually our situation will change. He'll do the Journeman thing, the recession will ease, Isabella will become self-sufficient, and we'll adjust. In the meantime, we'll "keep on keepin' on." This is my family, this is my life.

So Many Movies!

2010-01-11T21:48:00.002-06:00

How come I never knew the wonders of Netflix before now? Over the past 4 months since I became a member, I have rented 22 movies and watched 19 of them. I currently have 2 waiting to be watched and 1 that I lost(!) and had to pay for. Wow. For years, we had been loyal Blockbuster customers. However, a few months ago we drove by our neighborhood rental store to find that it was closed. No warning, no signs, nothing; just lights off and the sign gone! (Maybe they had too many robberies and decided this location wasn't worth the risk?) After some griping during my lunchbreak, several of my co-workers suggested Netflix. They even brought in a bunch of "free trial" cards! So, I went online and signed up. 1 month Free (you don't even need the card to get that).

I was so caught up in the excitement that I didn't even know what movies to pick. My first 2: "Coraline" and "I love you, man." Interesting combination, I know. Both earned a "2 star" rating from me. In fact, I was a little traumatized by "Coraline" and had very weird dreams for a few nights!

I've gotten better with picking my movies (and moving the ones I'm actually excited about to the top). My current queue is a list of 45 (and I plan to add more tonight). I signed up for the 2-at-a-time option, thank goodness. So, if both movies arrive and I know Richard wouldn't be interested in watching one of them, I can watch it myself, send it out, and have another arrive within a few days! No late fees, watch at my convenience, and I don't even have to leave the house (just check the mail). Did I already say it: wow!

Starting Over

2010-01-10T22:20:00.004-06:00

Today I will attempt to restart my life as a blogger. Things were so hectic for so long, and nevermind my best intentions, I could never get back in the swing of things with this blog. Now that the baby is on a schedule, work is on track, Richard is out of town all week, and I have a handy new laptop... I have no more excuses.

I already have lots of stories in mind, so hopefully I'll be able to keep you entertained, interested, and coming back for more! I'll try to avoid becoming a "mama blog" and mix it up with a little workplace drama, trials in my new-found kitchen, splash in some real estate, and top it off with all the random thoughts and dreams that I deem fit for publishing.

I hope you'll come back soon. And don't forget to leave a comment; that's the only way I'll know who's hanging around and which topics you enjoy or hate.

For now, I'll leave you with this:

Gift from the Easter Bunny

2009-02-04T22:09:00.002-06:00

Back in April, we joined my family on a camping trip near Roswell, NM. The weather was perfect, we packed all of the necessary gear, and we planned for a nice relaxing Easter weekend.

During the night, Richard and I snuggled up in our tent and listened to the coyotes howling off in the distance. The night was cool and the moon bright. Sometime around 3 am, Richard started to wake up from a dream. At first, he was dreaming that he was in a bar, perched on a stool. Someone sitting next to him was kicking his stool and starting to get on his nerves. Slowly, as he awoke from the dream, Richard was confused why our cat was scratching herself at the foot of the bed. As he became more aware, he remembered that we were camping and that the cat was, in fact, not on the bed. But, if not the cat... what? He slowly lifted his head from the pillow and *squealed* (not really, but I had to make it sound funnier)! He none-too-gently poked me until I woke up and told me to LOOK AT THE FOOT OF THE BED! I groggily put on my glasses and picked up my head, too. There, sitting ON OUR BED, was a rabbit! Its huge ears were perked and it was staring directly at us! In a flash, it was gone. Had we imagined it? Was it real? I crawled out from under the covers and inspected the tent--yes, there was an access point where our smaller sleeping tent connected to the larger tent... so it probably was real. I covered up the hole with an extra blanket and I curled back up into bed.

A little while later (10 minutes? An hour?), Richard woke me up again: "I think it's BACK!" Sure enough, there it was--perched at the foot of our bed! I grabbed my pillow and said "Fine, I'm out of here." I unzipped my tent and leaned out--to see THREE MORE rabbits lined up outside our tent!

That was enough for me! I took my pillow and blanket and joined my family in their cozy (rabbit-free) camper. Later, while we were cleaning out the tent, we found little "presents" scattered all over our stuff, even in our suitcases and all around the bed! (They must've had a party while we were sleeping!)

The next week, I started to feel a little "icky." I was extremely tired, had achy muscles, and couldn't keep any food down. My first thoughts were swirling with images of Plague, Tularemia, and Anthrax! (These are all diseases that occur naturally in NM and can be carried by rabbits.)

By the end of the week, another thought crossed my mind... when was my last visit from "Aunt Flo"??? After worrying myself for a full week, I sat down and had a "chat" with Richard. Immediately he drove to Walgreens, picked up a 2-pack test and begged me to "do it now!" The instructions say that results may take 2-5 minutes... well, in less than 30 seconds, we had our answer--2 blue lines!

This is why we tell everyone that Miss Isabella is our little "gift from the Easter Bunny!"

Higher Expectations

2009-02-02T20:52:00.004-06:00

The past 2 weekends were interesting experiences in child development and the role of parenting skills (or lack thereof) on said development.

Two Saturdays ago, I spent several hours with 4 kids (ages 10, 8, 7, and 5), trying to keep them entertained in my home and at Lowes (yes, the DIY store). This Saturday they were back (this time with their mom). The only way I would get suckered into tending to that many kids would be if they're related to me (and these 4 are). For the most part, these kids are relatively well-behaved, I suppose (compared to some of the really BAD things that they COULD be doing). However, I am continually surprised by the general lack of respect, manners, and consideration. By now, I probably shouldn't be surprised, but wow--I would've NEVER even THOUGHT of doing some of the things that these 4 do:

Put my shoes on the sofa.
Spill food on the floor and leave it.
Grab snacks from the counter (at somebody else's house).
Ignore my parents.
Say "I'm hungry" then not eat.
Say "no" when an adult asked me to do something.

How do parents get to the point where they just "don't care" about what their kids are doing, how they treat adults, or how they treat other people's property? Sometimes I think that maybe 3 kids was "enough" for these parents, but they didn't realize it until they already had the 4th. (Yeah, could you imagine that realization? "Dang it, honey, we should've stopped with 3, this 4th kid is just too much!") Or, are the kids simply a reflection of the parents' own actions, beliefs, and lacking niceties? Or, maybe you just have to "pick your battles," and trying to keep 4 pairs of feet off the sofa just isn't worth the fight?

It's easy to say, "oh, I'll never let my kid do that!" Eventually they will do some of the "thats." But, which of the "thats" are really just NOT ACCEPTABLE?

Finally, I have an example of something that one of the kids did/said that totally threw me off. On Sunday, only one of the kids came over. He had been playing video games most of the day and was taking an "eye break." He was watching the work that his dad was helping us with and I decided to offer dessert. So, I asked him, "Hey, would you like a banana split?" He didn't look up at me, but mumbled "yeah." I said, "well, the catch is, you have to come in here and make yours while I make mine." His response (still not looking at me) was, "well, nevermind then." WHAT?! A kid turning down a banana split because he has to make his own? His dad tried to talk him into doing it by telling him that he could put on his own toppings (and I listed out the ingredients that I had: vanilla and strawberry ice cream, whipped cream, chocolate syrup, and caramel syrup). Still, no go, the kid didn't want to make his own food. I said "okay, your loss" and went to make mine. Well, after I piled up the toppings in my own bowl of ice cream, I walked over to show them (and share a bite with Richard)--and told him "it's too bad you didn't want to make one, it came out really good!" And he said "well, I guess I'll make one now." I told him, "sorry buddy, but I already put all the stuff away. Maybe next time."

Was that mean? Should I have made it for him? Should I have let him make it after he saw mine and changed his mind? I think I did the right thing.

I was even more glad when later: I asked him "hey, would you help me carry a bag of trash down to the dumpster?" (we had several loads of trash to take) and he said "no, I don't think so" (and kept on playing the video game)! I asked him "Why won't you help me?" And he IGNORED me! I even tried reasoning with him: "I cooked lunch and dinner for you, let you play my video game all day, and you still won't help me?" After I had taken all the trash out (3 trips), Richard asked me why he didn't help and I said "I don't know, either he's lazy or just wimpy enough to let a GIRL do all the work." Was that mean? Probably, but apparently "reverse psychology" doesn't work on this kid either, because he didn't even bat an eye. He even had the nerve to ask me if he could go back to playing the other video game!

I just hope that I can instill values in my kid(s) so that they will be motivated, creative, compassionate, helpful, respectful, and considerate people. I hope I never get to the point of just "letting it go."

One More Week

2009-02-01T18:56:00.003-06:00

So, I'll be heading back to work next Monday (Feb 9) and I have very mixed feelings about it...

On the one hand, I have been in desperate need of adult interaction (besides Richard) and escape from the house. However, the thought of leaving my "tiny" baby with someone else (who isn't related to me) makes me sad and a little uneasy.

I have never been the type of person who could "stay home all day and watch soaps and eat bon-bons." Pretty much since day one, I have managed to maintain the household chores (as a week-long process), take daily showers, and keep the baby fed, clean, and mostly content. I do also enjoy watching my General Hospital, taking long afternoon naps, and joining any available family members for lunch. I feel truly blessed to have a stable job that allows me to take off two months and still make enough money to cover the bills. These two months--spending time (all day, everyday) with my DAUGHTER--have been incredible, amazing, and unforgettable. I wouldn't trade any one of those days (even the most difficult of 'em) for a day anywhere else. But, I realize that it's time for me to "let go" a little bit and return to the "real world" of 8-5 work, schedules, and, thank God, ADULTS.

I don't necessarily feel anxious about not being with her (we've had grandma and grandpa babysit several Saturdays), it's just the thought that she could be trapped in her crib, in a room with nine other babies, crying those huge alligator tears... and nobody will notice her (pick her up, hug her, tell her she's loved)... (okay, I need a minute... I'm tearing up again...) Don't ge tme wrong, I think we picked an excellent daycare. It's a part of a church (which doesn't mean it's perfect, but does give a little more peace of mind), the teachers seem to really enjoy being around the babies (bless their hearts), and it's less than 5 minutes from my work (close enough to visit during lunch). But how do you leave your BABY with people who don't know you (or her) and have to tend to the needs of nine other babies who are equally demanding (probably more) and adorable (probably not)?

What if she says her first word to them? Or takes her first step into their arms? I can see it already. I pick her up one day and read through her "daily report" to see the note: "Isabella said 'mama' to Ms. so-and-so today." !!!

Okay, enough of that... if I keep that up, I'll be crying all night!
Since this is going to be my last "available" week to blog "all day," I'm going to make a very serious effort to post a few more times... I'd like to share a few more stories with y'all before I go on hiatus again.

Until next time, take care, and happy blogging!
I also wanted to say that if you're interested in seeing more Adorable Baby pictures, you can check out my photobucket!

Newest Addition

2009-01-09T13:18:00.002-06:00

So, it's been over 7 months... blogging is hard to do when you have a real job!
I just wanted to share (for anyone who still gets on here) this picture:

My little Isabella was born on December 8 at 8:07 am. She measured up at 8lb 7oz (yeah, what a coincidence) and 21.5 inches.

That makes her one month old (yesterday). And, what a month it has been! We're quickly adjusting to our new roles as PARENTS and learning what each of her squeals, screams, and squirms means.

I'll be off work until sometime in Feburary, so maybe I'll get back to this blogging thing again. I really missed it!

You and Me, and Baby makes Three

2008-05-23T20:03:00.002-05:00

Okay, so I can't believe it's been 3 months since the last time I posted something (anything) on here... but, it is TRUE!
Anyways, wow, if only you know all the things that have been going on in our lives! From the title of this post... you should be able to guess at least ONE of them! Yes, that's right, yours truly has a "bun in the oven." I am currently almost 3 months along... which give us a little Phelps around December 7th. I'm looking forward to getting through this "first trimester" thing, because I'm SICK of being SICK! I'm talking yakking morning, noon, and night. At home, at work, and everyplace in-between (even in the airport parking garage)! And, when I'm not yakking, I'm stuffing my face with anything edible I can get my hands on!
So, that's obviously our BIG news. All the more reason to break the silence and get back on this blog-thing. I wish I had more energy/interest in blogging, but I have to tell you, it's much harder when I'm pooped from work all day (not like being in school)!
I hope to be able to get back on here again (not after another 3 months) because I really miss sharing my stories and hearing/reading yours. If you're still hanging around (or just checking up on me occasionally), Thank You!!

Cupcake Fetish

2008-02-29T19:14:00.004-06:00

So, today at work, we ordered cupcakes from this local place called... yes, you guessed it... "Cupcake Fetish." Anyways, my coworkers each ordered 2-3 cuupcakes, which would sound reasonable to most people. I, however, decided that 6 would be a more appropriate number to order (come on, I do live with this guy named Richard--who has a HUGE sweet tooth). So, here were my selections (see below for the name and description of each):

Starting with the back row (left to right):

Sleepless in Albuquerque--chocolate cake, mocha buttercream, chocolate ganache, and espresso bean.

The Drama Queen (for the little sister)--chocolate cake crowned with pink vanilla buttercream and glittering colored sugar

Birthday Cake (for my soon-to-be birthday boy, Richard)--vanilla cake, chocolate buttercream, confetti sprinkles

(Front row, left to right):
Hello Dolly--vanilla cake topped with raspberry and coconut, filled and topped with vanilla buttercream

Half Baked--Chocolate chip vanilla cake, vanilla buttercream, cookie dough center

Grasshopper--chocolate cake, peppermint buttercream, mint chocolate chips

Don't these sound amazing! (AND! The creativity of those names!) I can't wait to go back and try Amore (choc cake, strawberry filling, dipped in dark choc, vanilla swirl), Cookies n' Cream (choc cake, oreo in center, oreo buttercream, cookie crumbs), Margarita Madness (vanilla cake, lime buttercream, coarse sugar, candy lime slice), and (for Richard) Hostess with the Mostess (choc cake, vanilla filling, dipped in dark choc)! Wow!

So, yeah, a fun (sugar rush) day at work today!

Condo Renovations

2008-02-04T21:16:00.000-06:00

So, I've promised pictures for some of you... and here they are (finally). Actually, all of these are pretty much the same thing--our living room, looking towards the fireplace. But, they are a good demonstration of what it looked like before, during, and after.

First up is the fireplace in the process of being torn down. We put in the new carpet (it was installed the day after we closed) and it looks awesome. The fireplace had this weird "faux stone" panelling glued to the drywall! So Richard tore it down and you wouldn't believe the screams! Yeah, he found some... dead wildlife... back there! Apparently, 50 or 60 birds got trapped (when the fireplace was installed?) and died back there! All the evidence they left were dried up skulls and ribcages, and a 3-inch thick layer of feathers and dust!

After that mess, we got it covered up again and looking "presentable." But then we had the great idea to remove the "popcorn" from the ceilings! Here's the room with new fireplace wall and NO popcorn. Oh, we also decided to wire a light in the middle of the room (there were NO lights in here before). Later, we'll put in a celing fan/light.

Finally, we primed the new and improved ceiling and painted the walls this warm "golden honey" color! See, all nice and tidy. Actually, it needs a second coat, and the fireplace wall will probably be painted an accent color, oh, and the ceiling will be repainted off-white, but besides all that, it looks pretty nice.

23 Days into a New Year

2008-01-23T21:40:00.000-06:00

Does anybody even read this thing anymore? I feel so "blah" when it comes to my blog! How sad is that? Anyways, I have a little time before I head to bed, so I'll catch y'all up with a few more details.

We've been working on the house for the past couple of weekends. Pretty much all we've done is discover that the ceiling looks awesome without all that "popcorn," but it is a LOT more work than we bargained for. So far, the only place we've removed it is along the hallways. We also picked a warm honey-gold yellow for the hallway and living room (but only got the hallway painted). We'll work on the ceiling in the living room (hopefully this weekend) and get to painting by next weekend. Then, it will just be a matter of time (and money) before we get the last "touches" done (i.e. the kitchen & bathroom overhauls). Yeah, those are going to be BIG...

Richard (yes, I'm just going to put his name in here, enough with the whole "R" this and "R" that) has made me so happy (and proud) with all he's doing in school. Of course, he has a lot of "are you sure" moments (when he really needs my verbal support), but he's getting so much more involved than I ever thought he would! Heck, he even does his homework early and participates in extra-credit projects (today it was a mock interview--competition thing, tomorrow it is a Residential Wiring competition)! He got the official certificate for being on Dean's List last semester and it's currently residing in a place of honor--the refrigerator!

The animals are all still terrific. Guapo is adjusting beautifully to being an indoor dog (and has only had 2 "accidents"--which I will say are mostly my fault--for not taking him out "one more time" before bed). He even figured out that in the morning he better get out there and do his "business" but in the evening he can take a little longer to sniff around! The cats get into all the mischief you could imagine--and our new carpet is going to need a dye-job if they keep up their pyro-gastrics!

We're still living like "poor college kids" with a little tv and futon-sofa. Eventually we will get around to buying more furniture (hello, chairs!), but for now it works. The "elephants" that live above us are slowly driving us insane (I mean, WHO paces their bedroom at 2am?!) but otherwise we have very quiet neighbors (thank goodness).

Finally, work. Yeah, how come nobody warned me how tedious the "real world" is? Each morning I get myself cleaned up, walk the dog, feel all animals, go to work and bide my time until I can go home. I get home, eat dinner (Richard usually gets home before me, so he cooks & walks the dog, too), watch tv or read a book for a couple of hours, walk the dog, go to bed, and do the whole thing all over again the next day! All week I count down the days "until the weekend," then, once it arrives, I busy myself with laundry, cleaning, and fixing stuff. We do try to mix in a few days of "fun stuff" (i.e. sledding with little sister, driving up to the mountain, spending an afternoon at gramma's) but then we get "depressed" about all the HOUSE stuff we didn't do! So, I'm thinking we're better off finishing everything we can afford to do now and get back to enjoying our weekends! Anyways, how'd I get from work back to house stuff? So, work is still very interesting. I'm only 3 months away from my 1-year anniversary and I have my fingers crossed that I will be very happy when that happens (welcome to the world of State Jobs and mandatory raises). It's really amazing all the things a person can learn when you're pushed to it! I've started work on so many different projects and learned things that, less than a year ago, I didn't even know existed! The people I work with are pretty awesome--and even when I "get into it" with the one person I've had "conflict" with, it's still great! :) (Nothing like a little controversy to make things interesting.)

All toghether, we're doing pretty great and enjoying the benefits of living in a big city. I do hope to find more motivation to blog (at least on the weekends) and now that I've discovered the wireless connection (sitting as close to the back door as possible), I might have more opportunity. Thanks to those of y'all who are still hanging in there--I appreciate knowing that you care! Goodnight!

A New Day

2007-12-24T16:04:00.000-06:00

I'm taking a little risk here. But, it's been quite a while since some of y'all have heard from me... and I just want to say that "yes" we're okay. We moved into our new house (a 2-bedroom condo) on Nov. 10, went to visit family in MS & FL on Nov. 28 and are planning a quiet Christmas with the family in Rio Rancho.

The cats are happy and healthy. Guapo is re-adjusting to being an inside dog. And Birdy & Turtle are content in their new home. My job is still pretty great. I get along with my co-workers (most of the time) and moving to a house only 5 miles away has made a world of difference! R is absolutely loving school (and the benefit of Christmas-break). In fact, he scored a perfect 4.0 this semester (and Dean's List).

Eventually we will get internet at our house, but priorities, people--we have to eat!
Take care and I look forward to catching up with all of you!

Balloon Fiesta, Part 2

2007-10-24T21:09:00.000-05:00

When you get to the balloon fiesta late (and didn't have time for breakfast), one way to ease the hunger pangs is to hit up the SPAM mobile! They have free samples of freshly-fried spam on little rolls. This was a definite "winner" in R's book (not so much for me--I dunno about the SPAM).

By the time we got there for the "Special Shapes Rodeo," most of them were already up, up, and away... So I quickly fumbled for my camera, fought back my tears of frustration, and snapped off a few of the receeding shapes. They are: Pepsi can, Energizer bunny, Noah's Ark, a NASA space shuttle, a lighthouse, the American flag, and the same turtle as last time--way, way off in the distance.

Okay, so we took this pic on the other day we were at the fiesta, so what? The little bees are too cute to leave out, although it's too bad we couldn't get a good picture of them both facing us!

Here are a bunch more special shapes. Obviously that's a panda bear. Off in the background are also: Scarecrow, daisy, "Forest Friends" (tree trunk w/ animals), a tropical fish, and something big and pink (oh, it's a pig with wings)
Yeah, look at my handsome silly man!
The obvious self-portrait.
The sun was R's favorite. After all the special shapes took off the festivities of "key grab" and "bean-bag toss" started! There were hundreds and hundreds of balloons bumping and racing past us! They'd get as close to the ground as possible to drop bean-bags onto marked targets. It was really awesome!

Balloon Fiesta

2007-10-16T19:06:00.000-05:00

The balloon are stretched across the fields. Practiced crews unroll and unravel the lines and material. Fans blow hot air to start the filling.
Slowly, so slowly, they begin to rise. You can see the colorful shapes shift and fight for space.
As they take shape, the riders prepare for boarding. They patiently burn fuel to provide more hot air.
One balloon lifts off. Another quickly follows. Soon, they each catch a draft and float off into the clear blue sky.
The masses disappear into the horizon. But many balloons remain. A comical turtle rises from his sleep.
And a handsome young man is nearly bowled-over by a rapidly inflating balloon.

Pictures

2007-10-14T16:39:00.000-05:00

Okay, so these should've been on the last post... but I didn't have the time to upload to photobucket... then "paste" them all on here... But, at least you get to see them now.
Here I am at the fair... yes, that is a deep-fried snickers in my hand! I'm not too proud of the fact that I really did eat it (R only "helped" me with one bite).
I got a kick out of the lemonade stands at the fair. There was this one, and another that was also "lemon-shaped" but opened up (like pacman). They look just like the stands in that silly little game "Lemonade Tycoon" (or whatever it's called)!

Here's R lugging around a huge bag of delicious apples (from Dixon Apple Orchard, NM). We didn't actually pick our own apples (the bagful), but we did get to pick a few from the red trees.

This was taken on a very strange, and eerie morning, which I'm told was a bit of "freaky weather" (because it's never that foggy in NM). (You can see a different pic from almost the same place here. It's the 2nd pic.)

This was a Friday night at a high school football game. My little sister is one of the little turquoise girls out there (color guard). That's right, she's following along in my footsteps! And, I must say, I am proud of myself for sitting through the first half of the game--I didn't even like high school football when I was in high school!

Finally, in my picture-taking frenzy, I managed to get this pic of the moon rising over the mountain! I zoomed-in as much as the camera can do, then set the timer and put the camera on a fence post. The picture doesn't even do it justice, though. This full moon was gorgeous over the mountain!

2007-09-29T23:50:00.000-05:00

How did I end up here? How can it already be "almost October?"
It's hard to believe that I've been here--here, in New Mexico, in this job, in my parent's house--for nearly 6 months! Some days it feels like I just got here. I'll look up and be unexpectedly surprised by the gorgeous mountain sunrise. Or, I'll be shocked to find some random wildlife (rabbit, roadrunner, TARANTULA) playing chicken across the road. Other times, I feel like I've been here forever. Why haven't we been able to find a house yet? When will I ever get a pay raise (after 1 year "probation period')? Is it really time for my very first Balloon Fiesta?

Since the last time I wrote, we've done a lot of interesting (and not-very-interesting) things. We haven't accomplished or reached any of our major goals (besides getting R back in school--more on that in a minute). It's a little depressing, and somewhat disheartening to realize that we're still playing "musical houses" with my family. 95% of the time we've been at my parent's house, with 2 weeks in July spent at gramma's and the current 2 weeks at my aunt's house. The cats are still crammed in the bedroom with us (we let them out into the "rest of the house" sometimes, usually for a few hours on the weekends) and we've moved the turtle in there, too. Guapo is still doing damage to the back yard (he's never been this mis-behaved before!) and I'm worried about what we're going to be expected to fix/replace when we finally do leave.

The Xterra's "Service Engine Soon" light apprears to be permanent this time and the only time it goes off is when we "rejuvinate" (i.e. our trip to Ojo Caliente) or "abuse" (our recent drive UP a "Mountainous Unimproved Road") it. I am up-to-date with the oil changes, but we just don't have the time (or alternate vehicle) to get it in for whatever it could possibly need. And then there's always the new tires we're going to need before winter rolls around...

We're also planning a trip back to Mississippi (end of Nov - beginning of Dec) for my best friend's wedding. I'm so excited and happy for her, and it will be nice to spend at least a few days with family and friends. But, then there's the whole money thing... yeah... It's not so bad, just that we're TRYING desperately to save for a house...

Speaking of "saving for a house..." What an experience THAT is becoming! We started out very hopeful and excited. Now, it's almost too draining to even go look. The places we started out looking at were pretty much "fixer-uppers." Which would be great for US, but the bank only sees $$ (cost) and not the potential! So, we've pretty much decided that we're going to have to look at wider options. Now, we're mostly in the condos stage. Also, not so bad, just... small. Yeah, and still sooo expensive (considering the size, locations, and restrictions)! But, we have a pretty nice realtor, and she's being very very patient with us. So, we're still hanging in there. We're just trying to have faith that something will come up for us... eventually.

Two weeks ago, we went to the NM State Fair. Pretty cool. WAY bigger than any fair I've ever been to! While there we: Watched demonstration and tested products at a consortium of "Live InfoMercials," ate a deep-fried Snickers bar, and saw the Blue Oyster Cult live. Yep, awesome! Last weekend we went to the local apple orchard (Dixon's) and bought a HUGE bag of champagne apples and 2 gallons of REAL apple cider--YUMMY! Then, we were going to drive up to the (free) hot springs, but the weather was a little... scary... so we went the other way and nearly ran over a tarantula. A what? That's right, a real-live, hairy-legged TARANTULA! In the middle of the road! And we turned around 3 times to look at it (by the 3rd time, it was gone, so we didn't even get a picture)!!

Now, for those of you who read because this is your main gateway into what's going on with R...

He is absolutely LOVING school! And, I must admit, it suits him to a "T!" He's taking 4 classes (Mon - Thurs, 9-3:30) and it's about as perfect as it gets! We drive in together in the morning and he drops me off at work. Then he heads a mile down the road, parks, grabs a cup of coffee (or donut, depending on his sugary needs), and gets to class a little early. His favorite thing is this AC lab he has (I thought it was AC/DC, like "ROCK ON!!" but the DC lab is separate). Anyways, they spent the first couple of weeks learning diagrams, drawing diagrams, etc. Now that they've done all the diagrams, they're actually in a LAB (a huge shed with open walls) wiring STUFF (lights, switches, plugs, etc)! It seems pretty awesome, and he's so funny! One day I was telling him that I needed him to adjust my windshield sprayer thing (it shoots water over the roof of the truck) and he said, "I don't do that! I'm an electrician now!" Ha! And, he's all "correct" in what he calls things--like what we've ALWAYS called the "circuit breaker box" is now a "service entry panel" and stuff like that!

When his classes are over, he heads to the library or some other quiet area and does his homework. By the time 5:00 rolls around, he's parked outside my work, napping in the shade! At first, I think he didn't really like the idea of waiting around until 5 for me, but it turned out perfect! It gives him enough time to chit-chat with his classmates, get on the computer, or get ahead on his homework! And, we get to enjoy each other's company for the 45 minute (each way) commute! Friday is his "off day" and he really enjoys that, too! Usually he has plans to do something (work for gramma or my aunt, running errands, etc), but sometimes he just sleeps in, cleans up a little around the room, and gets to drive his Jeep around town!

This Friday, since auntie is gone, I'm sure he'll spend most of the day playing his New Game. Yeah, come on, you know the one. That's right--Halo 3. Or with all they hype it was getting it should be more like HALO 3!!! The guy worked his butt off the past couple of weeks to buy the game system (I can't believe he actually held out this long to get it), an extra controller (so I could play, too. Oh joy.), and the game itself. Thankfully, he's not so hardcore that we went and camped outside of GameStop! We just went and picked it up yesterday after work (and stayed up until 11:00 playing).

So, that's the past oh, month or so, summed up in a couple of paragraphs. Sigh. I guess that's all. See you next time!

Back to School

2007-08-22T19:44:00.000-05:00

No, wait! It's not me. I'm all set when it comes to school!
It's R! He's going back to school! In fact, classes start Monday! I can't even believe he's done it! He finally got all his paperwork together, talked to an advisor, and registered for classes--all in one day! Of course, it didn't go exactly that smoothly! He did call me in the middle of my class this afternoon (good thing I always keep my phone on vibrate) to ask me for a copy of my driver's license and to find out where I had the truck registration info (to establish residency). Then, he had to complain about using all his "XBox money" to pay tuition! Yeah, the poor guy has been working his buns off to save enough money to buy the thing--and now he spent it all in one fell swoop!
But, he's in! And, all his classes this fall will be in Electrician something-or-other! See, he'll be doing a program to get his Associate's degree in Construction Management (with an emphasis in "electrician"). I'm so happy for him--and overwhelmingly proud!

Okay, I probably should be getting ready for bed (it's so hard to sleep and get up here)! I just wanted to share the good news with y'all!

Living it up at the CDC

2007-08-21T20:11:00.000-05:00

So, can you believe it... I'm back "in the south" this week! Yeah, I'm here in Atlanta for a training conference at the CDC! How exciting is that? The For-Real CDC! Anyways, besides the facts that I am a) the youngest person here, b) the newest to the lab, and c) one of the few who has never been to the CDC... I started out feeling a little... um... naive. But, now, I've been here a full two days, and I'm feeling a little more confident in myself. I mean, I know I'm not an idiot, but I do realize how much I don't know! Fortunately, the people here are all very understanding and patient with my questions and I think they actually believe that I know what I'm talking about! (Well, I do know to keep my mouth shut when I have no idea what's going on.)

The group of 22 attendees hail from: NM (me), AZ, UT, NV, CA, OR, ND, TN, KY, LA, MS, GA, SC, MO, IO, DE, NH, CT, and ME. (I'm sure there are a few I'm missing--hey, I've only been here two days, you can't expect me to have met everyone!) It's funny, because I can start talking to someone I already met... remember their state (that's Ms Connecticut, that's Mr Kentucky) but I still have to really think hard (or ask again) for their name! For the most part, they're all Molecular Biologists, so sometimes I find myself in way over my head!

And, of course, I had to be the oddball and stay at a different hotel! See, 2 of my coworkers suggested staying at the Holiday Inn (about 3 miles away) rather than at the Emory Inn (across the street from the CDC). And, I think it was a great suggestion because there's actually stuff to do here. It's by a really cute historic district (Decatur, GA) with restaurants, little shops, oh yeah, and a Starbucks and Cold Stone! While they're all stuck at a crappy hotel that is near nothing (besides the CDC). So what, I have to ride the shuttle to meet them in the morning... I get Starbucks, and ice cream, and dinner options! But, it feels kinda weird to wait around for my shuttle ride after class... while they all head up to their rooms.

I guess the best part is that I have Free.Wireless.In My Room! And, it's not slowpoke and moody like the one I mooch at my parent's house! So, I might even be able to blog! All week! Yay!
Hopefully I'll be able to come up with something a little more interesting for the next post...

Still Here

2007-08-10T23:47:00.000-05:00

Hello! Oh, how I miss you all! It's late and I need to get in bed, so here's a quick recap:

No house yet. We had our eye on one, but it was sold today. Boo Hoo. (and I though we'd get to proclaim our "homeownership" on a cute little adobe casita)

Still having family drama. Don't wanna get into it, let's just say it got rough there for a while.

Nabi is no longer a "complete" cat. Interesting things: The vet was "amazed" by her "abnormally large" uterus. Also, she's finally putting on a little weight.

Reina is on a diet. Let's hope she doesn't lose it all, while Nabi gets to be the "fat one."

R is still "considering" starting school in the fall. He's been doing a lot of work with this "yard guy" and his team--making friends, networking, and getting comfortable with working in NM.

Work is interesting. I learn new things everyday and have to "file" away new information constantly. Most of the time I feel utterly confused (although I'm starting to recognize a pattern with my coworkers). For the most part, we all get along--which is a big improvement over my last... several... jobs.

I will be back in "the south" in 2 weeks (when I go to Atlanta for a conference). *cross fingers* Here's to hoping there's a break in the "Heat Wave" before I get there! I'd probably die in that humidity!!

I do wish I had the time/energy to blog. But, seeing as how the only place I can "pick up" internet is in the living room (i.e. dad's domain), and the only time I feel comfortable in here is when they're out of town, I can't do much of anything.

Oh, and tomorrow we're going to look at condos (oh joy) with a realtor. Yeah, just what I want, and overpriced, underspaced apartment. Well, at least this way we can say that we looked at all our options.

Take care and don't forget about me!

Just another day in the ABQ

2007-07-12T20:54:00.000-05:00

Oh, I've been gone a long time...
I really don't have time to do any of the things I used to enjoy... And I especially don't have time for such "frivoulous" things as blogging. So I'm making this a quick one... with pics...
1. I got tickets to go see Dave Koz (saxophonist) for my birthday. The place (casino) wasn't too great, but the music was AWESOME!
2. We made it out to the hot spring (Ojo Caliente) on R's 2nd weekend here. The weather went bad after only 4 hours in the pools, I ended up with a BAD sunburn, and I have a huge scar on my leg from our "little" hike.

3. This was the view from the "top" of the 1st trail (about 1 mile each way), looking down at the hot spring "resort." Altogether, it was a nice time, but camping in the rain and getting shorted on our time in the pools wasn't cool.

4. This was a waterfall that we hiked to (last summer we hiked to the TOP). It was a nice walk and the water was so cold!

5. We sat in front of this house for like 10 minutes waiting for the Roadrunner to pick up his head. Yes, that's a real-live roadrunner, as in "Beep-Beep!"

6. Um, yeah, here's R in a sombrero. He's doing okay. He just got me really mad, and my mom always told me "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." So I'll leave it at that.

7. And, R again (that's my dad up there, too). He's making himself extremely popular with my family and neighbors! Fixing things, doing yardwork, and just being the "nice guy" we all know he can be (when he wants to--see comment #7).

Well, folks. That's all I have for you. I better go make R the danged cake so he'll quit being Mr. Grumpy Britches! Take care, and know that I miss you all so much (family, friends, and fellow bloggers)!!

I'm Sorry, So Sorry

2007-06-26T18:43:00.000-05:00

It's been forever. I mean, literally. I still love y'all! Work has been exhausting, R and I made it here safely, and I haven't been able to sleep in past 9 (on a weekend) yet! But, I am trying so hard to get back to blogging. I feel guilty because I know that this is the only way some of you (family) ever get to hear about us! So, let's see...
The trip back to NM from MS was long... and very tiring. But, we made it just fine and didn't even hit any bad weather. It was strange going back to Starkville (after nearly 2 months) and not going to "our" house. The truck was huge and the Jeep was annoying (breaking straps and losing them all over the highway).
R spent his first couple of days helping out around the house. He helped with yardwork (moving gravel to the neighbor's yard) and re-wired my mom's truck (59 chevy). Yeah, she's been planning to re-wire that thing for almost 2 years, and he did it in 2 days! :)
We spent an afternoon with my brother and sister taking pictures (we're going to pick one, blow it up, and frame it for mom & dad) and treated them to dinner at a "fancy" restaurant (a Japanese Teppan grill).
We also made it up to Ojo Caliente (the hot springs) for a weekend--at R's insiting--and ended up being booted out of the water early because of a storm (that I had warned him about a week earlier). We also walked nearly 4 miles along trails and I got crazy sunburned and skinned up my leg really bad.
We hit up some yardsales one Saturday morning and found a desk for his computer, more cat toys, shelves for our bedroom, and a bedroom-size humidifier. Speaking of cats, ours are getting along better and the dogs are best friends!
Family dynamics... that's for a whole other post.
I promise, I will be back! I miss you all so much and really will try to get back to this--at least once a week.

May 24

2007-05-24T22:30:00.000-05:00

It's my birthday, and I'm just getting off from a nearly-full day at work. I say nearly-full because we had a long lunch (out) today. My original idea had been "Potluck Payday" (as in, every Friday that's a payday, we'd bring in random dishes and have a "pot luck" lunch). Well, I think everyone liked the idea, and we had decided on Frito Pies. One co-worker offered to make the beans and chili, but at the last minute, he decided that he didn't "wanna" cook. Instead, he suggested eating lunch "out." So, we went further downtown to a Japanese Gril/Sushi restaurant. It was pretty good... but left me feeling in desperate need of a NAP!
Tomorrow, at some ungodly hour, I will be leaving the house, "hitching" a ride to the airport, and meeting R in Gulfport. After 6.5 weeks of being apart, I am only a day away from seeing him again! Our weekend is planned out, nearly to the minute, and it will be a Hectic one! I arrive in Gulfport at 11:30. We pick up the truck at 1:00 (I "upsized" to a 22 foot truck--from a 16 footer yesterday, then got a phone call this morning that there weren't any 22 footers available, so we were "upsized" again to a 26 foot truck! Yes, that means we'll practically be driving a semi-truck halfway across the country!) After picking up the truck, I plan to drop by best-bud, AJ's house to see her and the fiance for a little while. Then, we'll head up to my MIL's house to hang out (and probably have dinner) with her, SIL, and nephew. Later (but hopefully not too late) we'll drive up to Starkville. Once there, we'll find a decent hotel where we can crash for the night. Early Saturday, we'll get to packing our stuff (move it all from storage to truck), this is the part I'm least sure about--I really hope it doesn't take us all day! Saturday night we'll have dinner (maybe with some friends) and take it easy. Late (I'm talking 10 or 11) Saturday night (or early Sunday morning) we'll hit the road again. 18 to 20 hours later, we'll finally be "home" again. That is assuming that, together, R and I can make New Mexico feel like "home." (I'm betting that we can.)
I would write more, but it's getting late, and I offered to go pick up little sis from her "fundraiser" thing. Wish me luck for this weekend!

GH addict

2007-05-21T19:53:00.000-05:00

Hi, my name is Celina, and I am addicted to General Hospital.
*hi celina*
I'll be the first to admit it. I have nothing to hide. I watched the show occassionally through high school (mostly during the summer when I had nothing better to do). But, my true addiction didn't start until my sophomore year of college. At that time, my roommate, Andria, was an addict and watched it every single day. Since we had the same class (Spanish 4) at 3 on Mon, Wed, Fri, I'd wait around with her and watch it before class. After only a few weeks, I was entirely caught-up on everbody's current story line. That was back in the fall semester, 2000.
Since then, I have managed to keep up with the show--although there have been some semesters that I was only able to watch one day a week. I even "found" the Ladies Lounge in our old student Union--where soaps were on all afternoon. I was so happy during those 1.5 years we had satellite, because I didn't have to worry about missing it at 2--it came on the SoapNet again at 9! And, if I still managed to miss it, Saturday, they'd show all 5 episodes, twice!!
In my grad school days, I scheduled my time so that I could take my lunch breaks around the GH schedule (2-3pm). I considered myself extremely fortunate to be able to have this kind of schedule... but I didn't know what to expect when I started a real job and wouldn't be able watch it every day. I thought that maybe Id have to invest in a Tivo or DVR? (Yes, this is something I have to consider with deep thought.)
It's hard to believe that I could be so caught up in the "lives" of these fictional characters. But, when you've seen kids literally grow up on the show--now they're my age--you can relate. And, you can watch all the drama that unfolds and tell yourself: "At least that would never happen to me!" And, it's fun to see how the storylines unfold, how the secrets that originated last year come to the surface today, and when characters love each other so much, you could just dream of passion and romance like theirs!
I could spend a whole afternoon explaining the complex relationships between characters. And, I've spent many hours myself, reviewing recaps from the early episodes (as far back as the mid-70s). I find myself attracted to the sexy young doctor, the mobster who wasn't that hot last year, and the new young villain who is getting mixed up with the wrong girl. I call people names and yell at them for their stupidity. I encourage the separated couple who are made for each other. And, maybe strangest of all, I wonder what it would be like to know people like that--if they existed in real life.
Do any of y'all watch GH? Any other soaps? Is there some other show that you're absolutely addicted to? (Don't lie, I know who of you is hooked on Lost or Desperate Housewives!)
Anyways, thank goodness that mom and dad have a DVR, and they've only "accidentally" erased one episode since I've been here! (I catch up on the weekends and will spend a "lazy Saturday" night glued to the tv!) I've even gotten my mom and little sister watching the show, although I must admit, it is pretty frustrating to have them constantly asking me questions about "who's that?" or "why/what are they doing?" If they'd just watch a few episodes, they'd have it figured out in No Time!

Buy Me A Pony

2007-05-13T08:29:00.000-05:00

One day I hope to have a little bit of property. And when we do... I would LOVE to have a horse! Just one, that's all I need (now, if R plans to ride, he needs to get his own)! On my way to & from work every day I pass up these horse "corrales" and slow down (the speed limit is already 30 mph) to watch them play. Imagine my utter delight when I drove by one morning and saw this!
So, I figured I'd start "working on" R now. Ask him nicely every.single.day if I can "Please get a pony?" Maybe by the time we do finally find a piece of property (a place to live), he'll be more agreeable?
Oh, as a side note, there's this one horse in the back pen who always has on this green blanket thing. And, it's pretty close fitting. Anyways, every time I see it, the first thought through my head is "Ew! That horse looks moldy!" Yeah, how's that for a "nonsense thought" first thing in the morning! :)

Weekend Drive

2007-05-12T08:19:00.000-05:00

I'm a little late on posting this... I know, it's been almost a week since the last. And, y'all have been so kind and patient with me! (I do read yours at least once or twice each week!)
Anyways, this was a drive we (mom, dad, sister, and I) took a few weekends ago... Nothing especially interesting, I'm just including them because I think the blog just looks better when it has pictures.

This Wednesday was 4 weeks (and Fri was a "month") since I started my job. It's all still going great and I'm slowly getting to know (remember) all the people I work with. The people I work with in My Lab are really nice, although now they all know how much younger I am than them, so they tease me a little. We had another New Guy start this week--so at least I'm not the "New Person" anymore!
Last week I found out that my Haz-Mat Training (was supposed to be this week--ALL week) was cancelled! That's too bad, because I was really looking forward to it! I'm still getting acquainted with everything around the lab, and I think I'm getting closer to having a Project of My Very Own! I've reserved and paid for my plane ticket to MS and will be going Memorial weekend (2 weeks until I'm with my hunny bunny again)!
I'm getting along pretty well in NM, and am absolutely loving the weather. (Ha Ha, R! It's only in the 60s-70s here!!) I haven't had any major arguments with the family (although the cats are in dual-confinement in my room) and I'm actually enjoying the companay of little sis and mom!
Last weekend I got my hair cut (a much needed thing) and I think I like it. Whaddya think?

Little Green Men

2007-05-06T19:05:00.000-05:00

Little Green Men

Milling about the courtyard.
Eating Burgers with green chili,
Chicken quesadillas,
and homemade sandwiches.
See this CAT scan...
It's a typical case of bacterial menengitis.
Do you concur, Doctor?
I do, Doctor.
Let's sit in on the conference.
There, we will discuss
Things of Great Importance,
Because we are Little Green Men!

Oh, I think I forgot to mention that my New Lab is located on the UNM campus, the north end of campus, which just happens to also house the Medical School... hence the "little green men." (Just wanted to make sure that you didn't think I was actually losing my mind--although that might still be a possibility.) Today marks the 3rd week that I've been on the job. And, still, so far, so good. I'm learning more things every day, and I fear that soon my brain will actually become physically full of information. What am I to do then?
I'm still in the process of trying to figure out what topics (about my work) are okay to discuss with the "general public" so don't go running your mouths, okay! :)
Anyways, two weeks ago, at the beginning of my first Full Week, I found out that I would be the "Main Person" running a "proficiency test" that our lab gets 2 or 3 times a year. My instructions were fairly complex, but I felt confident in my laboratory-whatever skills. This so-called "PT" was very interesting. It reminded me of my undergrad days, when we were given individual "unknown" bacterial cultures and had to do a variety of biochemical tests (media plates, broths, and chemical reactions) to find out what our cultures were. Except this was way more exciting, since I only had 3 days, and was learning everything NEW! I think the results were good, but I won't find out for sure until sometime this month.
Speaking of "this month," can you BELIEVE that it is already May? I would say "where are the days going," but it's more like "where is the YEAR going??" Last week we had a full-building evacuation that sent us home 3 hours early. Yeah, that was pretty exciting, too. We didn't know what it was at first--the rumors were that it was some "chemical spill" when actually it was 2 jars of OLD chemicals that are highly reactive! They ended up having to call in a bomb squad to get the jars out! (I figured it was okay to talk about that, since it was all over the news!)
As if that's not excitement enough--Next week I will have the very important and interesting task of Hazardous Material Training! From what I've heard, it's mostly police and firemen in training... which could make for an even more interesting week... Let's just hope that I'm not the only girl there! (Or maybe we should hope that I am...) Finally, we're back up to 3.5 weeks until R comes here--or rather, until I go to get him. Yeah, I figured the Memorial weekend holiday would be a good time because I could use the "free day" instead of missing a day of pay. So...
Thanks for being so kind and patient with me--I do hope to one day be the Decent Blogger I used to be...

Another Day

2007-04-26T20:56:00.000-05:00

Today I feel good. I got off work 3.5 hours early (chemical spill!), cooked tostadas for dinner, and am currently watching Gray's Anatomy. Tomorrow I will buy my plane ticket--to return to MS to get R and our stuff. I will be going the Friday before Memorial weekend, and by then I should have enough "annual leave" to still get paid for the day. (Yay benefits!)
I've been saving these random pictures for your viewing pleasure. Here are my kitties (Nabi at top, Reina in middle) and sister's kitty (Luna at the bottom). Don't let the peaceful picture fool ya, they're not exactly B.F.F. but they are slowly warming up to each other.
This is a view I just can't get over. This is what I see when I walk out of the front door of Wallymart. It's strange how familiar all wallymarts feel, and when I'm heading out the door, I still sort of expect to still see Starkville... not the mountains! :)
Finally, this was taken the Friday after Easter--I know, a few weeks ago. I just needed to show R that I wasn't kidding about the 1-2 inches of snow I had on my truck!

From the Corner of My Eye

2007-04-24T20:33:00.000-05:00

A heap of rocks, to the east of town.
Put together by a massive movement of continental plates.
Southern fingertips of the great Rocky Mountains. She is Sandia.
Sun rising in the east, bright rays are her crown.
And, as the sun sets, solar rays from the west set the mountainside on fire.
She glows red--and certainly resembles a "watermelon."
But not on this day. A thick layer of whipped cream clouds drips from her peaks.
She is sad and deep purple. Even the speckles of fresh snow cannot cheer her up.
Today they are grey and wet.

This town:
Tumbleweed caught under an oversized-SUV fender,
Crossing guards holding signs and escorting kids across the intersection,
On the radio, songs play in spanish.
Grafitti decorates the sides of every other building
Some of it is quite beautiful.
Every 5th car on the road has a dent,
Fender-benders happen every day.
Sun rising over the eastern mountains,
Which are dark and gloomy on cloudy days.
Clear skies invite the balloons up for a hug,
Passengers in the little basket risk life and limb
For an unequivocal view of the city.
A hot dog stand on the corner,
Reminds me of New York,
But, shouldn't this vendor be selling green and red chili,
Or maybe frito pies.
I'm not in Mississippi anymore.

The Commute

2007-04-22T07:14:00.000-05:00

Good morning! So, blogging is still sporadic, but it appears that Sunday will be my best day. And, since Reina has decided 6:30 am is the best time to... um... use the bathroom (eww! stinky)... I think morning blogging will now become my thing. I finally found my wireless connection in the house (fortunately, on the recliner in the living room) so it's not as bad as it could be.
I have a ton of pictures, but not much to say about them. So, I'll mix up my regualar text with the pic descriptions. (Oh, and thanks so much for all your comments! Although I'm not blogging much, I do get my comments in my email and I check that several times a day.)

Every morning I drive from Rio Rancho to Albuquerque. As the crow flies, it's probably 5-7 miles. Following the legal roads, it's 15. This is at the top of the hill just outside of my parent's neighborhood. Way off in the distance you can see the skyline of downtown Abq. I can even just about pick out the exact building where I turn to go to work.

When I hit the road on time, that is, by 7:00 sharp, I get to experience a beautiful sunrise. As far as sunrises go, I've never been especially interested in watching... the sun... rise... but watching it come up over the mountains makes my day start out a little bit nicer.

I drive through part of Corrales, the part with backyard vineyards and horse corrals. With a strictly enforced speed limit of 30mph, I have ample time to observe the small vines and playful horses.

Sometimes I see a hot air balloon or three. That morning there were actually three, but the 2 already up were so far off that they didn't really show up in the picture. In fact, I had to take this picture 3 times to get it this good!

Then I hit the traffic. This little road is the worst of my traffic--especially if I leave the house late (even just 5 minutes). The constant stop-and-go is so frustrating (and bad for my brakes)!
I do actually work downtown, and I have to drive through here, too. The building are mostly courthouses and "municipal buildings," but they're very pretty--all stucco/adobe-like and very new and clean.
Work is going great and I was actually really, really busy last week! I'm learning to enjoy (and appreciate) my weekends. I signed up for a bank account (old bank was regional to the SE). And, I miss R like crazy! We're down to less than 4 weeks until he comes here, so that makes me feel a little better. I'm doing good here with the family (although getting used to dad--who is so different than R--will take some time). It's hard for me to imagine how different things will be once R does get here. I mean, I feel comfortable and everything, but I just know that something is missing without him. I think it will actually feel like home when he is here to make it feel right.

Trials of The Day

2007-04-15T16:56:00.000-05:00

Okay, so I have some really interesting pictures to share with you... and I was very excited to show... but as my parents still have dial-up, and little sis is mooching of the neighbor's wireless, I don't know when (or if) I will get them up here! This makes me a little sad since we've been to some extremely impressive open houses, the animals are having great interactions--caught on camera, and I actually woke up to an inch of snow on my truck!
But, they say Patience Is A Virtue, and so this must be a test of my patience. Not that I'm willing to wait around hours for my pictures to upload, but that I will have to be satisfied with the idea that maybe one day I will be able to post pictures again.
What's more, I really miss reading your stuff! I have to use little sis's laptop to browse the web at a speed that will not put me into a coma, and her keyboard is missing the Control key, the mousepad is possessed, and for some reason I keep ending up "back" a page. I do have a computer in my office, but I doubt that your blogs (as entertaining, enlightening, and innocent as they are), would be considered "appropriate" internet material on a network hosted by the State of New Mexico.
So, please stick with me. I promise that I'm still here. And, hopefully one day soon, I'll be able to convince my mom that wireless internet (the kind R and I will happily pay for) is not such a terrible thing!

It's Been One Week

2007-04-13T18:49:00.000-05:00

After completing my 3rd full day at work, I find myself extremely exhausted and ready for the weekend. This is the first time I've had a "real job" that required me to complete a full 8-hour shift (10 hours if you include the commute). By the time I get home around 6, all I can think about is crawling into my too-small twin bed and going to sleep! Of course, I make myself stay awake until at least 9--to eat dinner, help little sis with homework, and be otherwise "social."
Let me go back to last week...
We left Starkville around 8pm on Friday and made it into Albuquerque around 3:00 (4:00 MS time) on Saturday. The drive was okay and only slightly eventful. Nabi decided that she needed to use the litterbox approximately 10 times during the trip (okay, that wasn't entirely true--it was probably closer to 20). I had to stop and clean the litterbox at each gas stop we made, but it wasn't so bad, I guess. She alternated her time between prowling around the truck, sitting in my lap, and sleeping in her kennel. Guapo was very well behaved and only spent an average of 10 minutes sniffing everything in sight when we took him out for the potty. Birdy spent the whole ride covered with his blankie hanging from one of the hangy-thingys in the back with Guapo--the only time he started squawking was when Guapo poked his nose under the blankie. Reina was pretty wonderful. We started getting extremely worried about her when she went the whole night without using the litterbox. Actually, she didn't use it at all until we were already in Albuquerque (and only 30 minutes from mom's house)!
We had pretty good weather for the first half of the ride, but by the time we made it to the Oklahoma border, we ran straight into the cold front that was moving across the country. Once we reached Amarillo, we were getting hit with sleet and possibly some ice on the roads. We had a very close call with some kid in a 4Runner who couldn't keep it under control. Somehow he ended up skidding across 4 lanes of interstate and nearly made me clip his back bumper! Saturday found us extremely tired, but we managed to crawl out of bed and drive around town with the family for a few hours. We even had a little snow storm!
Sunday we attended church with gramma and had a nice time at her Easter Cook-Out.
Very early Monday, R flew back to MS to spend some time with his family on the coast (I already miss him like CRAZY). I hung out around the house, made a trip to wallymart, and cooked dinner for the family. Tuesday, I had every intention of sleeping in, but was woken up by the stirrings of an active family. By 10:00 I found myself walking laps around the mall with gramma (I prefer to call it long-term window shopping and NOT exercise). She treated me to lunch and let me pick out a few new shirts for my new job. I made another trip to wallymart (oh, the joys) and cooked dinner again.
Wednesday was my first day at the NEW JOB and I am happy to say that I think it's going to be okay. I can't say yet that I love it--I mean, all I've done yet is get introduced to like a million people (okay, maybe only 100) and get thoroughly confused in the labyrinth of halls, labs, and offices! I have my own desk and computer (in a shared office), the others in my lab seem really nice, and the Dress Code is CASUAL (I mean, you just don't know how happy this makes me)! I will probably spend the next 2 weeks or so getting acquainted with the lab equipment and standard protocols, and hopefully after that, I will begin work on a project of my very own.
I am absolutely shocked by the looooong commute (Holy Crap! 45-55 minutes to go 15 miles!?!?) and by how exhausted I am when I finally do make it home. I never realized what this whole 8-5 (1hr break) work day was all about! For those of you who have been doing this for years: How do you do it? How long did it take you to get used to the schedule? At least I have a space of my own and am allowed to write emails and stuff (although this blogging stuff will have to be done at home).

Starkville Is

2007-04-05T13:18:00.000-05:00

Main Street. Many little shops, restauarants, and night hot-spots. MSU pride is shown with window paint, balloons, and waving flags. Site of the annual Christmas Parade, Bulldog Bash, and community-wide cook off.

Good Food. This is Mugshots, located at the west end of Main Street. In my experience, these are the best burgers, evah! From the sourdough bread to fresh red onions. And OMG! the beer-battered fries! Sitting on the upstairs balcony watching cars go by. Waving at the little kids, sipping on sweet tea, chomping down on humungous burgers...

MSU Activity. This was at the Super Bulldog Weekend cook-off last weekend. It's a competition thing, but then they (most of them, anyways) give away the food!! I ate 4 pork sandwiches and a plate of chicken tenders, YUM!

NOTICE: We're hitting the road tonight and should be in NM by tomorrow night or Saturday morning. But, mom & dad still have dial up, so I don't know when I'll be posting again. Also, we have a lot of stuff to do this weekend and I'm sure I will want to spend every waking moment with R, so I might just not have the time. Just know this--I WILL BE BACK!

Little CJ

2007-04-04T15:53:00.000-05:00

Okay, here she is in her current state of repair. R has been telling his mom about the Jeep, but hasn't been able to show her any pictures. So, as much as he teases me about this blog (Why'd you put that on there?), he asked me to put these up.
Over the past 4 or 5 weeks, we've been going back and forthh between internet shops and our auto parts store trying to get the brake parts.
Back in the beginning, all he wanted to do was take the tires off to paint the hubs. From day one, I knew it wouldn't be that easy. He found a few one very bad brake drum and decided to replace it. He also "accidently" got air in the brake lines--which required new brake cylinders since the previous owners didn't have them right. Since he was breaking (ha! how'd you like that pun) the whole thing down, he decided to check the wheel bearings, which also needed replacing. The parts ordered online came in very quickly, but the little things from our auto parts store kept getting mixed up and we would wait days and days to get one tiny little thing in!
Finally, last weekend, he got them all put back together. And, they even work! (Of course, I never doubted him!)

Birthday Party

2007-04-03T15:44:00.000-05:00

Last Monday was R's 26th birthday, and we had that party the Saturday before. I've had so much other stuff going on, that I just never got around to putting up the pictures. There are a lot of good ones, but they're all of people you don't know, and probably wouldn't be interested in seeing... so... here are 2 that I like.
We had a pretty good turnout--around 20 people (that's awesome for hermits like us)--and everyone had a fun time. We had exactly the right amount of food (nobody went hungry AND we weren't left with tons of leftovers) and all our friends got along (it's always interesting to see how friends from different "social circles" will interact--mom says it's a demonstration of our character that our friends will find things in common and have fun with each other).
I surprised R with a cake (complete with the appropriate number of candles) and we all sang "Happy Birthday" to him! Nobody minded the melted wax that was all over the cake (it takes a little while to light 26 candles, you know) and they all thought the little army men were a "cute idea" (although I have used the idea on a previous birthday cake--about 4 years ago)!

The next day, R discovered the bag of extra army men (tanks, barbed-wire fences, and flags included) and set up his own personal "battle" on the coffee table!
Who says we have to forget kid-fun when we "grow up?"

Farewell

2007-03-30T16:23:00.000-05:00

In this long, drawn out process of saying goodbye to MSU, the time has come. I am now in the final minutes of my Time Spent in the Forest Products Lab. In another 36 minutes I will no longer be able to stretch out in this somewhat-comfy computer chair and write my blog entries. As soon as I throw out my few remaining samples (I need to do that before I forget) there will be nothing in the fridges or freezers that belongs to me. I will not be included in another "Celebratory Lunch" or "Good Morning doughnuts" curtesy of boss lady. All the other workers (besides boss lady, coworker/grad student Grant, and ex-supervisor lady) have left for the day so I sit here (nearly) alone. Our lunch today was really nice and I even got a piece of this delicious Turtle Cheesecake to take home with me!
I have plans to attend the Super Bulldog Weekend events tomorrow with Grant and his wife (I'll probably take Guapo, too). That will be my last MSU event (unless R and I decide to be involved and go to the baseball game on Sunday--not very likely) until I come back as a distinguished alum and have my season tickets in the Club Level (hey, it's only $1000 for the season) to watch the best football--SEC Football!
Now it's time to head home and give the smelly dog a haircut and bath. It is finally time for me to move on. Yeah, move on.

Ready To Go

2007-03-29T11:54:00.000-05:00

So, here's the gameplan: Tomorrow is my last day as an MSU employee. This weekend I will partake in my last Bulldog Bash event (eating my way through pounds of barbecue pork). Next week I will complete the pre-determined packing arrangement and have a "test-run" fitting everything (including the animals) in the truck. (Speaking of the truck, I'm supposed to be getting a new window this afternoon. The boss and mechanic guys at the landscaping company were very nice and took all my information yesterday. Thank goodness!) Either Thursday night or Friday morning (next week) R and I will pack up the truck and head off into the sunset. We should arrive in NM by Saturday morning, giving us the day to just relax (and get the cats acclimated to living with two other cats). Sunday, my gramma is hosting an Easter cookout, which we will both attend. Monday morning R will fly back to MS. He has a few days off work, so he can spend Tues and Wed with his family. I will return to MS mid-May, pick up a moving truck, help R pack up our stuff from storage, and we will make our final trip back to NM.
Since this may be sad news for some family members (mom & gramma--I wish I could visit with y'all before I leave!!), I'm including a few very cute pictures of my cats.
Reina says: "Don't tell me I'm fat, see how well I fit in this narrow windowsill!!"

"Momma says I shouldn't put my 'fat head' in the blinds, but I don't think she'll mind if I just push them aside."

Nabi offers her help organizing the important documents in our filing cabinet. I try to explain to her that she's mostly just in the way.

Anxiety Inducers

2007-03-28T11:57:00.000-05:00

Last night I had a dream that we drove to New Mexico. When we got into Albuquerque, we passed up the place that I'll be working at (it's right off the interstate), so I decided to drive by there and show R. We stopped at the building and there were a lot of people everywhere (walking, jogging, riding bikes), so we decided to ride our bikes, too. We asked for directions to the "trail" (apparently there was a "trail" that leads from downtown right into my parent's neighborhood). R and I rode all over the place and ended up lost! We decided to split on the trail and whoever found their way first would call the other. Well, I just got lost even worse, and I had no reception on my cell phone!

For the past couple of days I've had an upset tummy! It's not nausea or diarrhea, just a constant gurgling feeling in the pit of my stomach! I think it's just nerves, but I also haven't been very hungry lately! Blech! What great timing to be feeling not well!

Today, my coworker had a flat tire and he asked me to go with him to the tire shop so I could give him a ride back to work. So, I did. On the way back to work, I decided to stop at Sonic to get a drink (cherry limeade, yum). Well, we're sitting there waiting for my drink, and I'm counting out change to pay when SMACK, CRACK, KAB-OOSH!!
The guy who was weedeating the median between Sonic and Captain D's hit a rock and it flew into my front passenger window!! The glass busted all over my coworker (he didn't even get a scratch, thankfully) and scared the $*&# out of me!! I jumped out of the truck and got the weedeater guy's attention: raising arms in the air, yelling out "hey! HEY!," and pointing at my truck. He cut off the weedeater and looked at me like I was crazy. I said "Yeah, um, you just busted out my window, man!" The other yard guy came over and they called their boss (they work for a landscaping LLC) to report the accident. They gave me the number and I asked for the weedeater guy's name (he seemed hesitant to give it to me). I called the company and gave them my information. Oh, and I did take pictures of their work truck, the spot he was weedeating, and the glass all over my truck. Now I'm just waiting to hear back from the boss guy. If I don't hear something by 2, I'll call again, I mean, I really would like to have all my windows intact!
I just wonder, what are the chances of this happening? Why was it me? The guy next to me pulled out of his spot a few minutes after it happened and asked what was going on. I told him and he said "Wow." I said "Yeah, just think, it could've been You!" Funny thing (not really funny, actually, it kinda makes me mad) is that the weedeater guy never even apologized!! I know, really! Jerk! Like it was my fault for stopping at Sonic!

Gift in a Red Box

2007-03-23T15:28:00.000-05:00

Yesterday I received a package in the mail. It was sitting on the doorstep when I got home after work. I knew AJ was sending something to me, but I didn't expect it to get here so quickly.
Inside the regular brown box was this adorable Red Box. There was also a magazine from the "Red Envelope" company.

Wrapped in pretty blue paper, inside the Red Box, was this adorable little gift:

The note that came with the gift explained the gift as AJ's "commemoration" of my New Job that came to me on the week of St. Patrick's Day. Hence, the glass-enacased, framed, four-leaf clover. Isn't that the sweetest thing you've ever seen?

Oh, and for the family members who don't know, R and I will be driving to NM on Easter weekend. He will fly back either Sunday or Monday. I will be back in May (around the 18th) to get a truck and help him pack up our stuff. So, I don't think there is any way I will be able to make it to the coast to visit before I go. But, I will be there for at least a day (when I come back in May), and I hope I can see you all then!

Spring is in the Air

2007-03-21T15:19:00.000-05:00

Out of curiousity, would y'all please leave a comment for me--and tell me what your current temperature/weather conditions are?
Here, it is partly cloudy, winds 5-10mph, and hot. It's the first day of spring, and it already feels like the beginning of summer! I'm so happy to realize that last summer was, in fact, my last summer in Mississippi! Don't get me wrong, New Mexico is hot, too. But, I think I can survive much easier without the humidity!
During my 1-2 week visits to NM over the past couple of summers I've realized how much I love:
Less humidity = less sweat!
Less humidity = un-frizzy hair!
Less humidity = no AC, fans (and "swampcoolers") work great!

I'm getting closer to being less excited and more sad about leaving. I'll still be heading out Easter weekend, but the exact details (i.e. flying vs driving) are still in the works. R and I really need to figure that out soon! And, since this all came up so fast, I'm trying to figure out when/how I'll be able to get down to the coast to visit with my in-laws (mom, sister, and grammas) before I leave! Maybe I'll just have to take a trip down there by myself after the 1st? Better yet, I'll try to convince R to go with me on his days off!
Okay, back to work for me--you know, I am still an MSU employee! :)

Tha Partay's Ova Here!

2007-03-20T16:32:00.000-05:00

Tha partay's ova there!
This weekend we're having a "little shindig" in celebration of R's birthday (the big? 2-6) and my New Job. It had started out as a surprise b'day party for him, but I accidentally spilled the beans (and I'm usually so good about not telling surprises) a few days ago. You have to know, though, that R is an incredibly tough cookie when it comes to hiding stuff. See, I was trying to tell him this funny story about best-bud AJ's "psycho" girlfriend when I mentioned her coming to visit this weekend. He didn't even hear the rest of the story, because he was stuck on "Why is she coming to visit?" I told him that she was coming to celebrate the New Job and to help us pack. He immediately asked, "How long ago did you plan this visit?" See, all this happened the day after I found out about the New Job, so he knew that we had planned her visit before I knew I had the job... Anyways, he found out and we (I) decided to make it into a "Dual Celebration."
Last Friday I made up these cute little invitations and he frowned when I showed him! I mean, what's that supposed to mean? Does he think they're ugly, or silly, or just unnessesary? How else would we "formally" invite the few (20 or so) friends we do have, tell them the appropriate time to arrive, announce that we will provide food & drinks, and supply directions to the house?
Today I handed a few out (mostly to the people I work with) and it was fun! They're like, "Oh, you're having a party? Cool!" And I'm like, "Yeah, but it's nothing fancy, just a little thing to get together, hang out, and eat." And they're like, "That sounds like fun, I'll be there." And I'm like... just kidding. :) I like to joke like that (how, like, valley girls talk, you know, like this) to bug R.
Well, this morning he "forgot" to grab his bunch of inviations, so he can't be mad at me when none of his friends show up, right? Oh, and in case you were wondering, You're Invited, Too!!
Today's Tally: Mom has called 4 times, and it's not even 5:00.

I Needed An Excuse

2007-03-18T18:42:00.000-05:00

Since about 10:00 this morning, I have been going nonstop! We got out of bed a little before 9, had breakfast, ran a few errands, and have been home the rest of the day. With 3 weeks (what?? Can it really be only 3 weeks??) left until I leave, I am starting to realize how much I really need to do.
Today I:
Cleaned the bathroom (threw away all the stuff we don't use, empited the storage closet, cleaned--and I do mean cleaned--the tub and shelf-thingy, organized R's bathroom things so they're not scattered everywhere).
Sorted my clothes (threw out all things that had holes/bleach stains/or just don't fit, packed up winter clothes in a separate bin--now if only I could remember where I put my summer clothes, set aside things that I don't wear/don't fit that can be yard sold).
Packed another 3 boxes of kitchen stuff (champagne glasses, margarita glasses, and coffee mugs--you know, all the things that are extremely breakable, utensils we don't use very often, "china" dishes, blender/chopper/various small appliances, threw out old food stuff, and set aside a lot of dishes for the yard sale).
Started on the file cabinet (throwing out old utility bills, shredding bank and credit card statements that are way old, set up a small "portable" file cabinet for those papers that we need to keep with us--birth certificates, marriage license, insurance paperwork, and got a good laugh at some of the things I thought were important enough to keep).
On top of all that, I also gave both cats and the dog a bath, cleaned up dog poo, and helped R with the jeep (don't even ask, that's a little sore subject right now) and clean up his stuff in the shed! Needless to say, my back is killing me--oh, and I'm starving! Now, R is outside pressure-washing the driveway (he made a heckuva mess) and I needed and excuse to sit down and relax--you're it!

Oh yeah, in case you were wondering (the cat's already out of the bag--I told mom yesterday) I start my New Job on April 11! That means I'll probably fly (Gulfport --> Albuquerque) sometime on Easter weekend. Um, and yeah, I'm starting to get a little sad...

2007-03-16T19:59:00.000-05:00

I can't think of a title that would even begin to describe all the things going through my mind right now. I have the date picked--for when I will begin my job. I'd tell you, but shhh! I don't want to tell my mom yet. R and I are discussing modes of transportation (looks like a better idea for us if I just fly over there with Guapo). And, we now are in possesion of a 10% down payment for our house. How did this happen? I mean, I remember filling out applications and putting up the "For Sale" sign, but how did it happen? I will complete my 3-month stint here (mostly for sentimental reasons) in 2 weeks. Soon after that, I will be headed off to The Land of Enchantment. During the time between now and then I have at least a million things to do (arrange, organize, situate, plan, employ, perform, complete)!
There are the technical things that I just cannot leave for R: schedule utility disconnects, fill-out change of address forms, purchase car renewals (tags and insurance). There are the silly-me things that I cannot leave for R: reorganize the storage shed, pack up dishes and other breakables, organize important papers from the filing cabinet. And there are all those last minute things that only I can do: pack my clothes, throw out non-essentials, final heavy-duty housecleaning.
I also have to set up a schedule for him including: bills-to-pay (local), trash days, and litterbox/dog poo clean-up. Along with the bills-to-pay I have to leave pre-written checks and deposit slips. I have to make sure that he has enough snacks, cokes, catfood, litter, toilet paper, and laundry soap to last a month. I have to hold a Yard Sale (looks like next Sat morning) to get rid of all this stuff we piled up in the living room and shed. I am also planning a "Double Celebration" party: Happy Birthday (R) and New Job (Me) for next Sat evening. Best bud AJ is coming, though, and she kinda owes me from all the work we did those 2 weekends at her new house, so I'll have an extra pair of hands. I have to complete some very important paperwork (State taxes) that has been irritating me--I mean, why does the online program say we'll get $20 back (but charges $30 to file) and my manual figures come up with us owing $40?? Do all state's taxes have "levels" (some portion taxed at 3%, some portion taxed at 4%, and the remaining portion taxed at 5%)?? I'm also still trying to get my manuscript (for publishing) complete, but my boss has been hanging on to it for nearly a month.
Once I can get past all those things, I still have the jitters about starting a New Job. In a New Place. With New People. Will the people at my New Job like me? Will I be able to find my way to the DOH without getting lost in a bad neighborhood? Do I know enough to not look/sound like an idiot in their lab? What will their dress code be? Will I have to wear "slacks" and "heels"?? (Oh, please! I hope not!)
I'll be one of those people who moves back in with her parents! I'll be living in a house where it probably isn't okay to walk around in... uh... my pajamas... R and I can't cuddle on the couch and watch our shows--in fact, we won't even be together when Heroes comes back on! Oh, I changed my mind! I don't wanna go!

See my new title??

2007-03-14T19:06:00.000-05:00

Go ahead and glance up there, I'll wait...
Okay, now that you're back... OMG! Isn't that just fantastic??? Okay, let me go back a day. Yesterday the Boss Lady at the job I'm so interested in let me know that she was trying to get in touch with my references. She described it as a game of "phone tag."
Anyways, this afternoon I had an email from her that she had gotten in touch with one of them and asked how I felt about xyz salary. I told her it was great, and asked a few details about the job benefits. An hour later she emailed again that all she needed to do was have a "second interview" with me and the rest of her Lab Group and I should be approved. I told her thanks and that I looked forward to talking with her. Then, she emailed me back "when can you start?" I offered to come "whenever" if she would tell me a date that she wanted me to start. She said that she'd be "thrilled" if I could start tomorrow, but she'd let me figure out my moving plans and as soon as I give them the date, they will contact me for information to complete my "Official Hire Paperwork."
I don't know how much I should talk about this job... especially since I haven't even started yet, but I will say that the description sounds very, very interesting to a Lab Rat like me!! So, R and I are discussing the hows and whens of the next couple of weeks, and it looks like... by April 8 or 9 I will be a new resident of the great state of New Mexico!
As if that news wasn't awesome enough, we also have someone who wants to buy the house! No, really! We put the "For Sale" sign up on Monday afternoon and have already had 4 people come and look at it. Yesterday evening a lady met us after dinner and "just loved" it! 15 minutes after she drove off, she called back and asked what we needed to "hold" it for her! I told her to call back today and I'd let her know. So, we decided that she would give us half of the price now and we will take down the sign. Then, she will be required to pay the rest by May 18, 2 weeks before she wants to move in! Do you know how perfect that is? That gives R a month here to keep working and "close up shop" around the house--then he collects the rest of the $$ and joins me in NM!! She's supposed to be coming over soon to sign the "Earnest Deposit" and give us some $$!
Wow! All I can say is that sometimes we need to just step back and Count Our Blessings!

Insomnia

2007-03-13T16:13:00.000-05:00

I've never considered myself an insomniac, although I do occassionally have a difficult time falling asleep. I think I've taken tylenol pm maybe twice in my life--never anything stronger than that. But, last night I had it bad. I was in bed by 9:30 and tossed and turned until about 11:30 when I decided to do something... balance the checkbook. It's not like money was on my mind, I just knew it was something I needed to do, it wouldn't take very long, and it would help make me sleepy. I wrote out the checks for bills that are due over the next couple of weeks, I put our tax stuff together in an envelope (leaving the form out for R to sign), and I wrote out our monthly budgets for April and May. After completing that, I wrote down the ideas I had for blog posts--why is it that when I sit down in front of the computer, I can't thing of a thing to say, but I lay awake at night coming up with lists and lists of things to share?? Anyways, by 12:00 I was finished and thoroughly tired.
This morning I managed to get up before R left for work (at 7:30) and, strangely, I felt refreshed. I had a cup of french press coffee, hot oatmeal, got all the trash out, and made it to work in time to clock-in my 8 hours (my goal for the next 2.5 weeks is to clock-in my max (8) hours to get the best paycheck, ever)! Wow! Don't I feel spectacular for having such a positive, productive day!
Then, imagine my surprise when I got a call around 12 asking about the house (we put up the For Sale sign yesterday). It was a nice lady looking for a place for her son who will be a freshman this fall--could I meet her at 1 to show them the inside--YES! They were really nice and I think *crosses fingers* they really were interested! Actually, they weren't the first to ask about it! Yesterday, less than an hour after we put up the sign, some guys driving by stopped and asked R for a "tour" and seemed somewhat interested! Are things finally looking up for us? You have to realize, there are places in our neighborhood that have been "For Sale" for months (a few have even been up for over a year)! Our two main selling points are 1.The Shed--it's just awesome and 2.It's cheap! We just want to get rid of the place quickly and painlessly, so we're extremely "Motivated Sellers!"
So, I'm down to my last 2.5 weeks here at MSU. I probably could get a little sad if I let myself, but I'm thinking ahead, to the big bright future, and I know we have Great Things Coming! Oh, and, a little birdie told me that the Job I Really Want called for my references yesterday, so there's that. Now, we're pricing Uhauls and plane tickets in an attempt to plan my Big Escape From Mississippi. Hey, I'll be easy, it's R, my little southern boy, who's going to be like uprooting a 100-year-old oak tree!

Laugh out Loud!!

2007-03-12T21:34:00.000-05:00

If this Family Guy clip doesn't make you LOL, you might need some professional help.
I have the makings of a better post... but for now I'm keeping it all right up here *points at head.* Please, send happy, happy thoughts our way--I'm expecting a few very important calls this week! (I know I've been saying that a lot lately, but this time I really mean it!)
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Fortune Cookies

2007-03-11T21:45:00.000-05:00

Over the past month, R and I have eaten chinese food twice. I've been stashing the fortunes from our respective cookies with the intention of sharing their absurdity with you. As you know, I am currently in Job Seeking mode. R is in "Let's Get Out of Here" mode. So, here's what the fortune cookie fates have described for us:

R #1: People rise to your expectations.
C #1: This is a night for love and affection.

R #2: When you awaken tomorrow, solutions to your problems will become clear.
C #2: Loving is sharing rainbows of happiness.

So, R will have people taking care of him, and "solutions" coming? And I will have affection and "rainbows of happiness?" How is this fair? Where is my "Today you will find your dream job" cookie? I would even be happy with "Big changes are underway."

April 23

2007-03-07T12:32:00.000-06:00

Okay, I'm not confused by what day it is today... I'm just pointing out the fact that our show, Heroes, will not be on again until April 23! In case you haven't been "sucked in" as badly as we have, here's the deal. Back in October we started watching this show. It comes on Monday nights at 8 and is awesome! There were 8 or 9 episodes and then, sometime in November, at the end of the episode, we were told that Heroes would be returning on January 22. So, we waited... and waited... and waited. January 22 rolled around, and it was back! Since then, we've watched another 8 or 9 episodes (even rushing home from weekend trips to Gulfport to make it back in time) and this Monday, at the end of the episode, we were told that Heroes would be returning on April 23! That's a month and a half! Who knows where we'll be by then!
Why do they do this to us? Is it a test of loyalty? Is it to increase the ratings? Do people watch less tv during these times of the year and they don't want anyone to miss their show? What's the deal? And, why are we so into this show that the thought of missing an episode makes me feel a little sad?
You know, I don't watch a lot of tv (at least by comparison to most of the people I know). I have to watch my General Hospital. We like Family Guy so much we bought all 4 seasons on DVD. And, I've watched most episodes of Everybody Loves Raymond and Seinfeld. Besides that, I could pretty much do without tv. But, then they bring about something like Heroes. Something that speaks to the inner hero in me, that makes me love and hate the characters, that makes me anxious to find out what happens next.
Anyways, I know this isn't important in The Bigger Picture. But, it's still annoying. It's somebody messing with my routine. And I like my routine very much, thank you!

Three Words Meme

2007-03-01T10:47:00.000-06:00

My attempt to "Answer the questions using only three words (no more, no less)."

1. Where is your cell phone? In left pocket
2. Boyfriend/girlfriend? Still happily married
3. Hair? brown, in ponytail
4. Your mother? will probably call
5. Your father? teaches fifth graders!
6. Your favorite item(s)? phone, laptop, book
7. Your dream last night? Party at Amanda's
8. Your favorite drink? southern sweet tea
9. Your dream guy/girl? high school sweetheart
10. The room you are in? working in lab
11. Your fear? out of control
12. What do you want to be in 10 years? mother, wife, happy
13. Who did you hang out with last night? hubby and cats
14. What are you not? a good cook
15. Are you in love? yes, with R
16. One of your wish list items? Dean Koontz book
17. What time is it? almost eleven o'clock
18. The last thing you did? poured a gel
19. What are you wearing? the same clothes
20. Your favorite book? House of Thunder
21. The last thing you ate? vanilla pop tart
22. Your life? ready to begin
23. Your mood? anxious, excited, ready
24. Your friends? quality not quantity
25. What are you thinking about right now? Need a Job
26. Your car? maroon nissan xterra
27. What are you doing at this moment? answering these questions
28. Your summer? out of Mississippi!
29. Your relationship status? married 2.5 years
30. What is on your TV screen? tv at work?
31. When is the last time you laughed? last night's movie
32. Last time you cried? talking about Gordo
33. School? finished! ...for now...

Do All Dogs Go to Heaven?

2007-02-27T15:33:00.000-06:00

Sometime between last night and this morning, our nearly 17-year-old family dog, Gordo, died. I'm not sure if I've talked about him here before, but he was such a major part of our family for so long...
When I was 9 mom and dad decided to get a dog (we had one before, but had given her to some friends who had a large yard for her to run--she was a very hyper dog). Dad really wanted a Bassett hound, and mom would be happy with whatever dad wanted. So, we went to this house somewhere in Gulfport where they had advertised "full blooded" bassett hounds for sale. Now I did see a momma bassett hound and a male bassett hound, but I swear the puppies we saw had to have some beagle in them, or something! I remember all the little puppies running around, chasing momma, biting each other's tails, and doing all things adorable for attention. Dad would point to one and say, "What about that one?" Or, "Oh, that one is cute!" But, mom wasn't really interested. She just stood back a little with her hands on her hips eye-balling the rambunctious little troupe. Finally, she saw him. The shy little guy who was hiding under the porch bench--with just his nose and paws sticking out, "I want that one!" We took the little guy home and never looked back.
For a kid who had always considered herself a cat person, I was utterly in love with him. My friends and I would set up obstacle courses for him and on long road trips (driving cross-country in the back of a truck--with camper shell) I would set up a separate "bed" for him and make sure that he had snacks and water when I did. He was always friendly with our cats and even tried to "nurse" one litter when their momma was out on the "hunt."
One summer, when my family went on vacation to New Mexico, we left Gordo at home and R to "babysit." On their 3rd day, R was walking him down the street from our house when he was stung or bit by something. R called us in a panic because his eyebrow area had swollen up and covered his eye. R rushed him to the vet where the wound was drained and he was given steroids and antibiotics. He recovered quickly, but kept the scar above his eye that made him look like a pirate.
In his early years, you could convince him to do anything for a piece of cheese. As he got older, the tricks got smaller and the cheese got bigger. Around 10, he began to show signs of arthritis. But half an aspirin and a night indoors always eased his pains. At 11 or 12 the vet diagnosed cataracts. By 14 or 15 he was nearly deaf. But, he hung in there. Once my family moved to New Mexico, mom and dad always kept the thought that, "I hope he makes it through this one last winter." And, for 6 winters he did.
Now he's gone. My little sister, whose 3rd or 4th word was "bobo" (Gordo) will be sad. Our other dog, Pinta (11) will be sad. Everyone who knew him will be sad. But, I know he's finally comfortable and happy again. I love you Gordo!

Something to do with Chickens

2007-02-26T12:54:00.000-06:00

Okay, so I'm almost 3 months out of graduation, and still no job. (Take a deep breath, mom--she has this thing about not wanting me to talk about job stuff.) I'm expecting a couple of phone calls this week--hopefully one from the job I really want. And, I'm down to my last month of being able to call myself and Intermittant Worker at MSU. R is still struggling with the jerks at his work, and we're still the "proud" owners of an old trailer.
But, yesterday, yesterday we did something fairly monumental (for us, at least). We rented a storage unit. And, we successfully moved a lot (I won't stretch the truth by saying "most") of our stuff into it. First, we drove the jeep over there to "try it on for size" (i.e. in case we have keep it in there for a little while--to prevent my parent's house from looking like a used car lot) and marked out the space required to fit one 1967 Jeep CJ5. Then, we took 3 trips (using both the Xterra and Toyota) to transfer bins, boxes, 2 pieces of sentimental furniture, one broken grill, one dirt bike, and one four-wheeler to the 10X20 unit. We sorted through some stuff and even made up a pretty big pile of stuff that we'll try to sell (Garage Sale). Whatever we don't sell will be sent off to the thrift store.
Anyways, back to the chickens... I was writing my mom's Morning Report (daily email tag thing we've started doing) when I made a hilarious (to me anyways) pun-sort of thing.

I'm starting to feel like the saying: Don't count your chickens
before they hatch. Or maybe it was: Don't put all your eggs in one
basket. Now that I think about it, it could be: Which came
first--the chicken or the egg? I don't know, but I'm pretty sure it
had something to do with poultry and not getting ahead of yourself...

Okay, so maybe it's not as funny to you as it was to me, but keep in mind that this is exactly how it came to me. I didn't stop to think about it, or edit anything. This surprisingly expresses exactly how I'm feeling right now.
After our routine Sunday morning breakfast, and driving the jeep to check out the unit, we came to the Big Decision Time. For nearly an hour, R and I hashed over the reasons for and against getting a storage unit right now.
FOR
1a. Obviously, less junk around the house is a good thing. 1b.When we do put up our "For Sale" signs, the place will look bigger without all our stuff. 2. It will be less work for us when I do get The Call and need to leave. R won't be stuck moving all of our stuff by himself. 3a. We know that we have a storage unit big enough for everything and that our stuff will be safe (we've stored stuff here before). 3b. If we had waited until later, all the big ones might be gone, and this one has enough room for everything plus the jeep. 4. I have a sense of "control" and accomplishment if I can actually do something (anything) that puts us one step closer to getting out of here.
AGAINST
1. We might be here for a while and we'll have to pay the monthly rent regardless. 2. R doesn't want to keep his jeep in storage. 3. What if things work out different than what we planned and we have the opportunity (i.e. help and money) to take our stuff with us right away? 4. Leaving our stuff here means that we will have to come back to Starkville to get it.

By putting our things in storage, I feel like I am moving towards that elusive goal of Getting the Heck out of Mississippi. But, with no job and no concrete plan, am I getting ahead of myself? We're planning to talk to the landlords about their requirements for potential residents, so that we can go ahead and put up the "For Sale" signs and ads in the newspaper. But, what if we do sell the house? Where will we live? Rent a non-lease apartment? Crash with friends? Long-term hotel? On the other hand, would that be so bad? At least it would be one less thing for us to "drag around" when we do leave. And, it would be money in our pocket.
Am I getting ahead of myself or just being a good planner?

Best Friend, Extraordinaire

2007-02-23T16:08:00.000-06:00

So, I've been a bad blogger... sorry. Last weekend I went to Gulfport to help my best bud AJ move into her new house. Yes, you hear right, her New House! She had bought some furniture (dining room and bedroom suites) at R's work and we've been storing it all for her until the house was finished. As of Wed (V's day) she was the proud and happy owner of a cute 3 bedroom home in a new subdivision in Orange Grove (Gulfport), Mississippi. I took her dining room suite and nightstand and mirror (all that would fit in the Xterra) Friday night and met her at the house for a late night of furniture assembly and friendly chit chat. Saturday, I helped her fiancee at her storage unit (getting most of her boxes and stuff) while she had another friend help get clothes, books, and other random stuff that was at her parent's house. We had a nice (and extremel productive) afternoon, followed up by a dinner I will never forget.

She had another friend (and her boyfriend) coming in from New Orleans, and they were looking at some fancy places to eat. The only place were were able to reserve on such short notice was this Bragozzo's at the Isle of Capri casino. I'll admit it, I'm much more a Zaxby's or Applebee's kind of gal. I like to get full after a full-course meal. I like to talk over dinner, watch other patrons, and just be able to relax. This place did not feel like that. For starters, R wasn't there, so I was already like the "5th wheel." Then, the 2 other people who went were older than us and that made me feel a little strange. Finally, 95% of the items on the menu were seafood. (For those of you who don't know this: I despise seafood.) Fortunately, my big lunch of fajitas (at Chilis) was still "around" and I wasn't very hungry. Of course, if I had actually been hungry, the sight and smell of so much fishy stuff would've chased my appetite away!

We ordered 2 bottles of wine (a very dry red for the men, and a gentler white for us ladies) and discussed the menu items for nearly 45 minutes. I finally chose some truffle ravioli thing--while everybody else chose... guess what... that's right... seafood. The only one I got a good look at was AJ's (because she was sitting next to me). And, wasn't I the lucky one. She ordered the "Aqua Pazza" which they claim means "crazy water."

Now, that I found that pic, I realize that I could've done without seeing it again! Anyways, they cook the thing (snapper--fyi: has huge fang-like teeth) whole and bring it out like that for presentation. Then, they use a little knife-spatula and fork to break the neck, remove head, peel off skin, filet, and de-bone--all right in front of you (i.e. ME)! Maybe this looks utterly delicious to you, but for me... No Thanks!

The only reason I'm talking about AJ's food is because mine was a complete let-down! The bowl was about 3 inches across and contained about 10 mini cheese raviolis in mushroom sauce. Don't get me wrong, it tasted good, but for $16 I would've expected at least a little meat, or something?!

We each ordered a separate dessert (except that they were out of vanilla ice cream--well, they called it something else) and passed them around. All together it was nice. And, the best-bud that she is, AJ bought my meal (as payment for my help moving).

You can be sure that this is one restaurant I will not go to again. It's just not in my taste or budget! :)

Be My Valentine

2007-02-14T12:24:00.000-06:00

As I think back over the past 7 valentine's days... the 7 R and I have shared... no one stands out as extraordinary. Every day we tell each other "I love you," hug and kiss, and try our best to be nice. I don't need Hallmark, Russell Stover, or Kay's to tell me that my husband loves me. If he remembers that I mentioned my need for socks and a new belt--and delivers those to me, I am happy. Just for the sake of simplicity, we will probably eat out tonight, but I doubt we will go anywhere out of the ordinary (does a $10 burger really taste any better than a $4 burger?). In fact, I'd rather eat quick and get home to continue our game (we've been playing Justice League on the PS2 for the past week--almost got it beat). Maybe we'll order some burgers or chinese food for delivery. I can pick up a bottle of wine on my way home. We'll hug and kiss and say "I love you" just like every other day.
How do you feel about this day? Do you have special traditions, or fantastic plans for the day/night? Do you expect gifts?

An Avid Reader

2007-02-09T12:47:00.000-06:00

I would certainly classify myself as "An Avid Reader." Ever since I was young (maybe 8 or 9), I started reading everything I could get my hands on. I believe I was 11 or 12 the first time I read Dean Koontz. And maybe 13 or 14 when I was "introduced" to Danielle Steel. I guess my mom knew I had enough grasp on reality to handle the horror, science, drama, and sexuality of these authors. After all these years, I still claim "House of Thunder" as my favorite novel. I've read it 3 times and it still reels me in! (You should check out that link, it's the strangest Internet Book Review I've seen!) Anyways, since I've been paying for my own things (i.e. since I turned 18 and started college), I've learned new ways to save money on what can be a very expensive "hobby." I hit up the thrift stores, antique shops, and garage sales every chance I get. I tend to buy books in "bulk," stacking up to 10 new-to-me novels next to my bed and randomly picking one from the pile. Sometimes I have to pace myself, though, because--if a book is really, really good, I can read a 600-page novel in one day. I'm not bragging, ask R, I'll curl up with it every spare minute I have and somehow just finish it.
These days I tend to go for soft romance and medical thrillers. Actually, that's not fair--I've also been reading historical fiction, non-romance drama, and suspense stories. Two things I am NOT interested in are fantasy (you know, like dragons and wizards) or autobiographies. Usually I pay between 25 cents and $1 for these used books, and once I'm finished reading a stack of them--I'll choose any that I might want to keep for re-reading (not many)--and the rest will go back to the thrift store (donation). So, it's like I'm paying 25 cents to "rent" their books--how silly is that?!
The two authors I always keep are Dean Koontz and Danielle Steel. I have nearly all of his books (from the mid 70s to now--before then it's hard to find them, which is probably around 40--OMG! That's way more than I thought!) and several (like 15) of hers. I'm such a faithful reader (of Koontz) that I even pay full-price for his new books! Sometimes, if I'm a very good girl, I'll even get his newest in hardback. Right now, I'm waiting for the paperback version of his newest--and also for the 3rd in his Frankenstein series (which was postponed from last Nov to this May).
My recent acquisitions are: Dazzle and Scruples Two (Judith Krantz), Malice (Danielle Steel), Hunter's Moon (Karen Robards), Deceptions (Judith Michael), Paradise (Judith McNaught), and--just to throw in a non-romance, Atlantis Found (Clive Cussler). That's weird, I picked books from 3 different authers all named Judith! :) I already read Atlantis Found and it was pretty good. I've read a few Cussler books before--he's my dad's favorite author. This book had it all: lost civilizations, earth-shattering meteors, gold mines, hidden treasures, and links to Nazi Germany!
Yesterday I started the Paradise book, and it was pretty good. I actually spent most of the day stretched out on the couch reading. Then, last night, after dinner and Gray's Anatomy, I crawled into bed and kept on reading. Somehow, I managed to stay up until 4:30 (yes, four thirty in the morning) reading. When R woke up and couldn't believe I was still reading--he pointed out the time to me--I decided to put it down. I still pulled myself out of bed and made it to work this morning--did the few things I needed to take care of (still no results on those samples)--and came back home (still feeling yukky--maybe it is the flu and not a stomach virus?).
I just finished the book. And, I'm feeling the customary let-down I always get when I finish a good book. I mean, this wasn't like, the best ever, but it was good. And it was long. And I really liked the characters. My fingers are still stained with the gray ink from turning 709 pages of intense drama, sad revelations, and endearing love. Ha! That makes me think of this video I've posted before (from Family Guy).
Anyways, sometimes I still surprise myself that I can read an entire book so quickly. And, I actually retain the story on the ones I really like. R teases me when I get really intense in these books, too. Because I guess it's harder for him to understand that, like a really good movie, I get involved with the characters. So, just like you'd laugh out loud at something funny in a movie, or cry a little when something tears at your hearstrings--I do the same with books!
Do y'all enjoy reading as much as I do? What's your favorite book? Author? Need books to read--I have tons and will happily share them!

Gastroenteritis

2007-02-08T11:51:00.000-06:00

*"ER" theme music plays* (Please note, if you have a sensitive stomach, you may want not want to continue reading. I'll keep the language gentle, but the insinuations will be very clear.)

This past Saturday, on his way home from work, R called me to "warn" me that his stomach was upset and he had Mc*Donald's for lunch. Now, just so you know, I have successfully omitted Mc*Donald's from my diet--after the 3rd upset stomach. (We didn't eat there often, anyways, but every time we did, we'd both end up sick a few hours later.) R tried to avoid them, but still held out hope that maybe one day they'd be good again (his childhood loyalties are much stronger than mine). So, I was "warned" and I was prepared.
He came home and ran straight for the throne. I quickly realized that this was no ordinary stomachache--he had crap coming out both ends! I gave him some pepto bismol and water--and sent him to bed. But, his stomach wasn't cooperating. Every 5-10 minutes he'd jump out of bed and rush to the bathroom. Always with crap out of both ends! He also told me that he felt like something was "stuck" in his throat--and that was what kept making him gag.
After 4 hours of nonstop "bathroom breaks" and one phone call to his mom (25 years as a nurse), he told me that he thought we should go to the Emergency Room! We dressed and packed up a barf bucket and some papertowels and headed out (it's only about 5 miles from the house, but not in my truck--you know what I mean). There were only a few other people in the waiting room--and honestly, they seemed to be on a social call rather than a medical emergency! The nurse called him back for his vitals--and he put on a terrific gastro-technics show for her! I tried to warn her! After that, he had to be wheeled around in a chair because he was feeling lightheaded.
They took us back into a private room, where we waited, and waited, and waited. Finally the doctor (his name was Dr. Butts, if you can believe it!) came in and asked for the symptoms. He looked in R's throat and quickly made his diagnosis. R had gastroenteritis (caused by the stomach virus that has been "going around" this season) and all the barfing had irritated his uvula--which was now swollen (hence the "stuck in the throat" feeling). The doc ordered two shots for him--one was a steroid to help the swelling go down and the other was a muscle relaxer to help stop the gag reflex (and to help R sleep). About 30 min later, a nurse came in with two HUGE needles! One went in his shoulder, the other in his hip--and he is a BIG baby when it comes to needles. Not 5 min after the shots, he was OUT (asleep) on the bed! We waited another 45 min to "check out," and the doc gave us a prescription for anti-nausea medicine. 2 hours after we got there, R was wheeled out to the truck, and I took him home.

When we got home, I got him in bed and gave him a cold compress for his head. Even the kitties were worried about him--Reina cuddled up right next to him like she wanted to make him feel better! (She never does that.)

Sunday (fortunately was R's day off) he was feeling better--but had to visit the bathroom every 10-20 minutes! I picked up his prescription for him and the "sleepyness" side effect was an added bonus. He ate a little soup and jello, but pretty much slept the day away.
By Monday he was feeling much better (although still a little "tender" in the stomach).
Yesterday, I started feeling it! (Thanks R!) I made it through nearly a full day at work, but today, I'm staying home. Fortunately, I have some samples that I'm waiting on--and I can't really do anything else until I get those results back... So, it's an okay day for me to stay home. Blech! I just wish I didn't feel so crappy!

The Turtle

2007-02-07T12:02:00.000-06:00

This big guy (I just assumed he was a guy, but I really don't know) has been a member of our family (aka zoo) for nearly 5 years. His name is Jackie (I know, that's usually a girl's name, but we had 2 roommates--guys--named Hiroshi and Jackie and my 2 turtles--the other died last summer--were named after them). He's a Red-Eared slider. And, he was already pretty grown when I got him (someone gave him to me). For a long time I had the 2 turtles in a 55-gallon tank, but we didn't have room for it in this house, so I had to downsize them to this 10-gallon tank. It is a little crowded, but I think it's okay, and it's probably better now that Hiroshi is not there to dirty up the water as quickly.
He's not exactly what you'd call a pettable-pet, but he does have his own little "personality." He likes to watch me do the dishes (his tank is currently right next to the sink) and he gets excited when I shake his food can. On the days I remember to turn on his light, he'll spend hours "sunning" himself--precariously balanced on his personal piece of driftwood. We also have an in-water heater so he doesn't freeze his cute little hiney off.

One day I hope to have a large tank for him again--or even an outdoor pond! But, for now, the little tank will have to do. I'm also thinking that maybe my dad can set up a nice tank for him in his classroom (if we move to NM). It's so relaxing to sit and watch him swim around, and maybe we could even get a girlfriend for him one day?

Handsome Boys

2007-02-02T15:48:00.000-06:00

I'm home alone... and bored...
R is in Gulfport (yes, again) today. These are two of the pics he took on one of his trips down there. Isn't Stewie (our nephew--his name is really Elijah, but I like Stewie) just the cutest little blondie you've ever seen?!

Here they look like they're up to no good! It's so amazing how fast the little ones grow up! It seems like just a few weeks ago he was still crawling and crying! Now he's fast on his feet and calling everyone mama and dada. R says that his favorite toy is a little microphone thing that he walks around talking to! He also likes dancing to the music that his mom plays on the guitar!

Just One of THOSE Days

2007-02-01T12:47:00.000-06:00

I know we all have those days, you know, when nothing works the way it's supposed to. The breakfast you at at 9 doesn't last until 12, the cats yak in 3 hidden spots (two of which you found by stepping in), the hubby makes a whole pot of coffee and takes every last drop of it in his thermos (leaving the tell-tell signs of drips on the counter and a fresh filter of wet grinds--for you to clean up), you realize that somebody dragged in all kinds of grass and leaves (when you just vacuumed--yesterday), when you finally make it to work (at nearly 11), you manage to forget everything you're supposed to be doing, when you finally figure it out, you drop stuff and misplace your samples, the noises in the lab (i.e. squeaky shaker and humming freezers) are really grating on your nerves, but you're sick of listening to the same 100 songs that are on your mp3 player...
I'd say it actually started on Monday (and I didn't even go into work), so I guess it would more accurately be described as "Just One of THOSE Weeks!" I also haven't been sleeping very well (weird dreams, uncomfortable pjs, bad pillow, etc). Oh, AND I missed GH yesterday (apparently the day someone blew up The Metro Court Hotel)!
I love the cold weather, but really, it's only worth it if you get the added benefits of Fun Snow and Snow Days (neither of which I think we will get). It supposedly snowed last night (I was still up when it was sleeting), and R claimed to have seen ice on the bridges, but--this morning--Nothing. A big fat Nothing. So, poo on you Mr. Weatherman! If you can't make it snow during the day--or at least give us enough to last through the night--just Keep It! I think I'd much rather not be cold (for no reason).

An Update on The Previous two Posts:
The cats are even more hilarious with that tent! I'll put it in one position before I leave in the morning, or before I go to bed, and by the time I get home (wake up) it's at the complete opposite side of the room! Reina (the big one) has decided that it's all hers and if Nabi even goes close to it, It's ON!

R really enjoyed having his XM radio on the drive yesterday. He even said that he was so "into" the talk (whatever it was) that he almost missed his turn!

XM Radio

2007-01-30T21:11:00.000-06:00

I found this promotional code to get three free months AND waived activation fee (a total savings of about $50) on XM Radio. R has been bugging me for a few months to get this--and until now, I just couldn't justify adding yet another monthly bill (no matter how "small"). But, R's been going down to Gulfport (for work) at least once a week for the past 3 weeks, and I know that the Talk Radio he likes will help to keep him (safely) on the road. Besides, even if we do realize that we don't use it as much as he thinks we will, it's free. For THREE months.
Do any of y'all have XM (or any satellite) radio? Do you like it? What are your favorite programs to listen to? If you don't have it, but are considering--maybe, if you ask me real nice, I might share my promo code...
Sorry for posting so blah today, it's just been a rough day and I still have to get the laundry done (at the laundrymat).

One Dollar

2007-01-30T21:00:00.000-06:00

At R's favorite store, I found this cute little Pet Pop-Up Tent. I wasn't sure if the kitties would actually play in it, but a dollar isn't much when it comes to a few hours of entertainment. This was actually the second picture, but I wanted to save the better (first) one for next. Here's my little angel, Nabi in what has already been claimed as Reina's domain!

Like I said, this was taken first. I had thought that Nabi would be first, but Reina jumped right in and only came out to beat up Nabi when she got too close! :) When I put the little door flap down, she bats her paws at us and looks too cute!

This has absolutely nothing to do with the little tent, but it's so cute how Nabi will sit and sit right.on.top of the heater vents! The magnetic paw prints are to block some of the hot air (in the attempt to make it continue down the line to the next vent).

Anti-Nesty (aka Antsy)

2007-01-26T18:10:00.000-06:00

I have this overwhelming urge to pack things. In the process of fixing up our living room, we've removed (packed) most of our nick-nacks and wall hangings, and it feels weird. I'm used to having my family's pictures over there on that shelf, and the big mirror up there, and the gazebo picture right there, and grampa's cross on that nail by the door. I jokingly say that we're going for the "minimalist approach," but really I just feel weird. I even brought home a few more boxes from the lab (they've been in the back of the truck for 2 days). Maybe I'll use those for my books and little stuff from the kitchen.
We've discussed getting a small storage unit to move some boxes and "toys" out of the shed. I think when we finally do get around to trying to sell the house that will make it look a little nicer. Also, our clothes dryer gave up the ghost last weekend, so we're looking for another one.
Ha! And, I can say all this with a straight face--knowing that I still haven't had a job offer. Here I am, making plans on how to get out of here, and I don't even have the logistics of the whole thing! Hey, maybe while you're reading your morning paper, you could keep an eye out for job postings--for a Microbiologist, Lab Technician, Scientist, or any combination of those words... I've already applied to jobs in NM, CA, CO, MT, WI, GA, MD, NJ, WA, OR, ID, PA, and ND. Obviously, by this point, I'm open to any suggestions!

Of Mice and (Wo)Men, 4

2007-01-23T22:15:00.000-06:00

Okay, so this really isn't the continuation of the Mouse Brother's story. Instead, it's my explanation to you that yes, we really did have mice (or at least a mouse). And, they were in our walls, and did chew through our electrical wires. And, we did catch one in a trap.
We started hearing them back in mid-November. It started out as little scratches in the walls. Then, the cats became interested in the noises, and started stalking all the little nooks & crannies (and in-floor heater vents) in the house. We'd usually hear the wall-scratching at night (sometimes it would be so loud I'd even wake up, and I am a heavy sleeper). But, it wasn't every night, just sometimes. And, we'd hear scuttling in/on the ceiling/roof, but would just say it was squirrels or birds or our imaginations. Oh, and I guess I should say that, yes, we do have 2 cats, and no, the mice were never seen inside the house (yuk).
Then, on New Year's Eve Eve (yes, 2 days before the New Year), I was in the living room watching tv (or maybe on the computer) when I heard a strange whooshing or popping noise in the wall next to me (behind the Christmas tree). Then the lights went out. Not all of the lights, just the ones in the living room and kitchen (i.e. all the big lights). I checked the breaker box, but nothing had flipped. About an hour later R called on his way home from work. He was planning on stopping at his favorite store, and blah, blah, when I heard the noise again--from the same spot! I told him quickly about the noises and lights and that I thought he should get home now. He was there 10 minutes later. He checked all the same things I did (different light switches, wall outlets, and breaker box) and found nothing new. We had a spare outlet, so he decided to fix the first one on the circuit (located in the exact location where I heard the noise). He fixed it and tested it--and it worked! But, the next one down the line still didn't. He ran off to Lowe's and bought another new outlet to replace it. Afterwards, it still didn't work. So, the problem had to be somewhere in that 6 foot stretch of wall between the two outlets.
The next day, Sunday, was his day off, so we decided to just start pulling off paneling and find out what the heck was going on. Lo and behold, not 6 inches from the first outlet, we found an area of singed wood!! (That's singed, as in freaking burned!!) The wires had been entirely chewed through and were poking out enough to short the circuit and burn the wood (in our walls--in a 30-year-old trailer)!!
Since we had already pulled down some paneling, we decided to go a little further down and see if there was more damage. We found one other spot that had been chewed to the wire (but not even close to as bad as the first spot) and a few others that had started being chewed! By now, it was Sunday evening, and New Year's Eve, no less. But, we decided to give our insurance people a call anyways--that's what insurance is for, right? They took our info and said that someone would call us Tuesday. They did, and set up a time for the guy to come check it out--in a week! So, there we were, watching tv in the dark (thank goodness that was on another circuit) for 1.5 weeks!
Not going to complain, though, because we were approved for repairs and compensated for our time and materials. Compensated enough to do all the stuff we had been planning to do in the living room anyways (replace wainscot, window trim, and paint)! I thank God that we were here when all this happened. I mean, if we had been gone (stayed in Gulfport longer after Christmas, or gone to NM to visit my family) who knows what could've happened! And, now we have the living room looking so much better than it has in the 2.5 years that we've lived here (and probably even longer than that)! The walls are fixed, windows re-framed, wainscot up and painted (1st coat last night), and we have wood outside for the window trim, "chair rail," and floor kickboards. We finally took down those two stupid lights that were always in the way, patched the million little nail and thumbtack holes, and painted that weird section of wall that falls in the no-man's-land between the kitchen and living room.
The place is looking pretty good, and we owe it "all" to that/those little mouse/mice!

Back to the Mouse Brothers story. So, since we caught that one little guy (almost 2 weeks ago), we haven't caught anything else, or heard any more noises. So, the jury is still out whether it's because:
1. They didn't like the cold weather (the average temps have been about 15 degrees lower since that weekend).
2. They came in the house (through the big hole we made) and the cats ate them.
3. Seeing their dead kin scared them off.
4. There was only one mouse.

Where did the week go?

2007-01-19T16:42:00.000-06:00

Wow, I can't belive it's already Friday! And, my last post was on Monday! Well, I'll continue the story of the Mouse Brothers later...
I've finished 3 more job applications, that puts me at 18. I had that first rejection, then, the phone interview I had before Christmas... well, I finally emailed her and she told me that they had someone who was "more qualified." I also had that 2nd interview at the beginning of the month, but haven't heard anything (they said to be expecting a call-back at the first of Feb). I also received one rejection letter in the mail. It was a job that I kinda knew I wasn't qualified for (GS 12!), but I figured what the heck. So, at least I know that I WILL be hearing back from the federal jobs I applied for (the rejection letter was a standard government form). At least 4 or 5 of the jobs closed in the last 2 weeks, so I'm expecting some responses soon.

Although the work I'm doing in the lab now isn't my own (I'm helping out with some bacterial stuff for another grad student), I'm enjoying it. At least I can add this up with my Total Work Experience. It feels weird to still be here, I really hoped I would be long gone by now. But, realistically, I know that, on average, it takes 3-4 months to find a job. (What was that, like 4 commas?!) And, since I only started in December, I shouldn't be expecting anything real until at least next month. I have a time limit here, though, and I need to make sure that I don't overstay my welcome. I may have said it before, but this "Intermittant Worker" position I'm in is only allowed to be available for 3 months (max). And, at the beginning, I was told I might only be funded for 2 months.

Okay, it's almost 5 (4:59 to be exact) and I normally would be rushing to get home (of my own accord, plus at the insiting of R), but I'm not. R is in Gulfport (or, hopefully, on his way home) and probably won't be back until 8 or 9. He had to take a work truck down there, and got the okay from his boss to stop and visit his mom if he wanted (of course, yeah!). It hasn't even been a month since we last saw them (Christmas), but we're starting to realize that we're running out of time to do these little quick visits. (Maybe) Soon, our roles will be reversed and we'll be seeing my family all the time, but only being able to visit his a few weeks out of the year. Of course, things could go according to our original plan, and we'll be splitting our 2 weeks of vacation between NM and MS!

This not knowing is starting to get to me! I've said it before, and I'll say it again--I Am A Planner. I like to know what's going on, and to schedule my time accordingly. I like a routine or schedule, interspersed with random spontaneity. This whole living by the seat of my pants is NOT for me! Please, please, think happy thoughts for me and R! It really is time for us to move on and start our Real Life!

Of Mice and (Wo)Men, 3

2007-01-15T20:16:00.000-06:00

Jerry tried to explain the extreme danger of the traps, but Mighty just couldn't resist the creamy Jif peanut butter. Late one night, he found himself under the house, following the nutty aroma. He grabbed a handful of the yummy stuff, and tried to step back carefully. But, the V-Snap Trap was too fast! Mighty fought with the spring, and tried to release himself. He was no match.
Early the next morning, after realizing that Mighty never made it home, Speedy and Jerry started a search party. They quickly found their big brother, stuck in the trap.
The remaining two brothers mourned the loss for several days. Eventually, they realized that revenge on the humans would be the only way to avenge the loss of Mighty. Jerry immediately started developing a plan...
Speedy was assigned to collecting several key components: 4 rubberbands, 2 small socks, 3 coke cans, and a new vacuum bag. Jerry hoped that these tools would be enough to perform the human and CAT sabatoge he was formulating. (He also thought it would help to keep Speedy out of his way.) In the meantime, Jerry had a lot of work to do. He began constant surveillance of the humans and mapped every corner of the human's residence.
Soon, soon his plan would be set in motion. Patience was paramount.

...to be continued...

Of Mice and (Wo)Men, 2

2007-01-12T11:57:00.000-06:00

After passing on the living room, Jerry examined the next closest room, what the humans call the Computer Room. He found so many cool toys in there, but quickly realized that the lack of heat would not make it a nice place to live. Also, all the noise from the street was very startling!
In the meantime, Speedy was rushing from one end of the house to the other, collecting insulation and plastic for their home. Sometimes he was so busy that he forgot to be quiet--and the humans didn't seem to appreciate that! In all his running around, Speedy thought he found the perfect place to move in--the human's bedroom. He passed the message along to Jerry, who went along to check it out.
After a very brief inspection, Jerry agreed that the bedroom would be perfect! He immediately ordered Mighty to collect as much nesting materials as he could--and stash them in the wallspace. Jerry knew that they would be safe in the wall--because the CATS would never be able to catch them there! All day, while the humans were gone, Jerry, Speedy, and Mighty would work hard at getting their materials together. Once the sun set, the three would settle in their house-in-progress and play Rummy.
For the next several weeks, all was going well for the brothers. Their house was nearly completed, they had figured out the feeding schedule, and learned how to avoid the CATS. But, one day Mighty and Speedy got in a fight. Mighty started tearing up parts of the house and Speedy didn't know how to stop him (Jerry was nowhere to be found)! The two began to scuffle in the narrow wallspace and they were making enough noise to draw the attention of the humans and CATS!
The next day, Speedy found a "plate" of peanut butter laid out under the house. He snatched as much as he could carry, and ran back to tell Mighty and Jerry. Jerry studied the "plate" and tried to explain that it was a TRAP! The humans must have figured out where they were, and were trying to get rid of them!

...to be continued...

Of Mice and (Wo)Men

2007-01-11T10:45:00.000-06:00

Speedy, Mighty, and Jerry are brothers. Speedy is quite aptly named, as he has the quickest legs known to mousekind. Mighty is the brawn of the trio, as he is capable of lifting 100 times his own body weight! However, Jerry provides all the brain power for this operation. After establishing several mousetowns across Mississippi, Jerry has chosen a new location for his family to begin their new life...
the Phelps' Residence.
The brothers scoped out several homes in the neighborhood, but determined that this house would be perfect for them. Easy access into the home, nesting materials strewn about the property, and daily meals provided by the human occupants make for very cozy living.
The first thing the brothers had to do in preparation for Moving In Day was to collect small pieces of wood and cardboard for the foundation and walls of their starter home. Speedy was given the job of running through the ceiling to collect pieces of insulation soaked in asphalt--that would prevent the other critters (i.e. ants and spiders) from moving in, too. Mighty was told to scope out the broken pieces of particle board that were scattered under the home (these had fallen apart years ago when the old tenants let a small leak get out of control). And, Jerry began the initial survey to find the best location to build their home (nest).
First, he examined the most obvious location, the kitchen. Access to foods from all over the world (Wallymart, Kroger, Foodmax) and a constant supply of water were within a short distance, but the people seemed to already have this room safeguarded (borax, bug traps, and spray). Next, the living room might be a good option. It's right next to the kitchen, but the people don't seem to have as many barriers posted. Jerry tested the water by chewing on a few wires--he needed power to get his tools running to start construction. But, when the lights went out, the people had to break up his plan by tearing down the walls--and there were CATS in the house! Jerry decided that the living room was No Good!

...to be continued

Maybe Time to Upgrade

2007-01-09T16:40:00.000-06:00

Okay, so before I start, I know that talking about one's sleeping habits is a bit personal, and discussing said habits of one's spouse is probably entirely inappropriate, but I have to share this.
R and I sleep on a queen bed. It has been nice having that "extra room" you know, as opposed to a twin bed. But, apparently it's not enough. Maybe we need to knock down a few walls to make room for a King bed? You decide.
Let's start with Exibit A: In this cartoon diagram, you may notice that two equally-sized individuals find that there is indeed enough room for each person to maintain an expected level of comfort. This is how I would assume a nice, well-mannered couple would situate themselved on any average night of the week.

Enter Exibit B: Here you will see that one member of the aforementioned couple has a slightly irregular location and manner of sleeping. Please also note the presence of two smaller individuals (those are cats, in case you were wondering) who have unanimously decided that the individual on the left is an ideal heater, headrest, and comforter.

After close inspection of these diagrams, can one please explain to me why, at 2:00 this morning when I woke up and asked R to "please scoot over," he proclaimed, "I am at the EDGE of the bed, YOU scoot over!" ?? Help me out here, am I missing something?

Celina, Interior Design

2007-01-07T18:19:00.000-06:00

A few days ago my little sister, Ruthie, asked for my help (input, advice, ideas) for redecorating her room. She says that she's interested in a "retro, black & white" theme. So, I put on my thinking cap and googled every variation of her request that I could think of... and I came up with a few alternate ideas.
Before I get into those, let me tell you that R has been ragging me for my interest in doing this. I think it's partly because he's "jealous" that I'm focused on something besides him. He also keeps commenting on how "silly" it is for me to be "trying to be a designer" just because I see it on tv. Whatever!
Okay, out of these samples, only 1 is actually "black & white," but I think the others could be "altered" to a more "black & white" theme.

#1. First, is the pink and brown (very "retro," no?). I think this is adorable, but I would probably prefer a blue, green, or even orange with the brown. And, of course she wouldn't have the special built furniture or wall hanging thingys.

#2. Here is the only actual black & white room I found. In this room 2 of the walls are grey pinstripe wallpaper and the other 2 are the black with white stripes. I think the stripe idea is nice, but not so much the wallpaper. Personally, I think the black & white (& gray) would make me feel kinda depressed...

#3. This is a very simple "retro" look. I think the brown and turquoise is much better than black. I really like the way it looks much cleaner than the 1st brown room.

#4. This is a more kid-like "70s retro" design. Again, all colors except for black. And, the special-made headboard would probably not go over so well with mom & dad.

#5. This room is a little more "bubblegum" than I think Ruthie wants, but I really like the barcode stripe design. I think she could do this on white walls with black, gray, and maybe 2 or 3 other colors (lime green, purple, orange).

What do you think of these ideas? Do you have any suggestions? I told her that I need a few things from her: What furniture does she have, how big are the walls, is she going to put the doors back on the closet.
Well, this is just something silly that I'm working on, and I hope I'll be there soon to help her actually DO IT!

So, Now I Have a Job

2007-01-04T15:06:00.000-06:00

...in the same lab ... fooled ya, huh? Yesterday I started back here and got the run-down on what things I'll be doing. The thing that makes me most happy is that I don't have set hours--pretty much I can just come in whenever I want, as long as I do the stuff I'm supposed to do. The bad part to that, though, is that now I'm getting paid hourly. BLEH! And, some paperwork didn't get changed (from the previous intermittant worker) so my first paycheck will be less $/hour than I had hoped for. But, we will get the papers figured out for the next one. It still won't be much, but at least it's better than what I'd get just sitting at home ($NO/hour)! It actually feels kinda nice to have stuff to do (not just working on thesis stuff).
Oh, and some positive news: I had another phone interview with another company I applied to in Albuquerque! BUT, that just throws another "what if" into the Job Search Game... no word from the other job interview (the one back before Christmas), but I'm hoping it's just the weather that's preventing them from calling.
I haven't sent in any more applications, but I'm starting to think that maybe I should do just a few more, I mean, that way my chances of finding The Best Job will be slightly increased.
Okay, now that I'm getting paid by the hour, I probably should not be goofing off on the computer! :)

Welcome to two thousand seven

2007-01-02T15:43:00.000-06:00

It's a new year, but honestly, it feels like any other day. Last week, New Mexico was hit with record snow fall and this is a picture of my mom and dad's house! In the 5 years they've lived there, I don't think they've gotten more than 3 or 4 inches of snow at a time--this time they were hit with 1.5 feet! I know that's not much compared to placed further north, but for them it was HUGE!

I haven't heard back from that job prospect yet, but I think it's safe to assume that the weather may have some impact on their timing. I'm still very hopeful. Tomorrow I will be back in the lab, so at least I'll have that to keep me occupied until I hear something else.

Finally, I have this video I heard about on 20/20. It's about 5 or 6 minutes long, but if you're a fan of Pachebel's Canon and rock (YES, I said ROCK), check it out!! Oh, yeah... and HAPPY NEW YEAR! I hope it's a blessed and prosperous time for you and yours!

It doesn't suit me...

2006-12-29T21:39:00.000-06:00

...lounging around the house all day. I feel bored and useless. I've only watched a little TV--mostly General Hospital, Judge Judy (I mean, who in the world decided that was a good show to follow GH???), and HGTV. I've also made chocolates, painted Christmas houses, and organized a few scrapbooking things. I've made way too many trips to Wallymart, Zaxby's (by now, I think it's considered an addiction, R!), and the post office. I've happily received more Christmas cards than ever before (I think we're up to 21 now). We've only had one ornament fatality. And, I think I've finally convinced R that he really doesn't need an XBox 360.

I'm still anxiously waiting to hear back from that one job (expected call: Tuesday), and I will be starting back in the lab on Wednesday. I'm still wondering what I should do, though. If I am offered the job, do I take it (the first)? Or wait for some of my other application responses? The pay at this place won't be very good (according to what I was told at the end of the interview), but the location is good (hello, mom) and the benefits would be good. I'm not really counting my chickens, or whatever, I'm just trying to consider the "what ifs."

But, I have so many other concerns weighing on my mind. I haven't been sleeping very well for the past couple of weeks (besides the past 2 nights--those have been pretty good). With the holidays come all the emotions of realizing that a few members of my family are missing. I catch a whiff of a burning wood and think about grampa and the old furnace that was in their old house. He'd spend the warmer afternoons chopping wood, stack it up in the foyer (with extra on the front porch), and wake up through the night to load the furnace. Although I haven't spent a Christmas with my family since 2003, it's hard just knowing that he's not here anymore. Second AWOL is my sister, Jeannie. She didn't pass away, but is gone none the less. Nobody in my family has seen (or heard from) her since that Tuesday (Dec. 5) when she met mom at the house to get her stuff. I'm still trying to figure out how/if I should contact her (via phone or letter). On the hard nights I lay awake for hours going over the things I "would" put in her letter. I honestly don't know if it would even matter, or make any difference to her, but I feel like I should (want to) get a few things off my chest (out of my head and heart).

We don't have any plans for New Year's (we usually just stay home anyways), but if you know of a great fun party, let me know! If I don't "talk" to y'all before then, I wish you all a hopeful and blessed introduction to the New Year!

What a Weekend!

2006-12-27T14:20:00.000-06:00

So, Christmas is over, and I'm happy and comfortable in my own home... ahhh!
You know what I mean? It's great to go other places, see family, exchange gifts, and spend time with all the little ones. But, boy-oh-boy, the best part is getting back home, adjusting the thermostat to my preferred temperature, and staying in my pajamas all day! This holiday was a little more difficult for me, but I think I did okay not letting my "bah-humbug" feelings show (at least, not too much).
My MIL happily entertained and cooked for a full house, and the 5 kids (3, 18mos, 18mos, 14mos, and 7 mos) were only slightly overwhelming. I saw more toys unwrapped and tossed aside than I've ever seen, ate the best dressing (MIL does it best), and even had chef-prepared french toast at my best friend's house (thanks Mr. AJ)!
I took lots of pictures, but don't really feel like uploading them... so they'll have to wait. Oh, and I DID try to post before today, but the "new" blogger thing was giving me all kinds of problems.
Okay, well, I have a lot of errands to take care of today, and I only have another week before I start work back in the lab! (I had that interview last week, and it went very well. I should hear something back from them by Tuesday or Wednesday. I'll keep y'all posted!)

Blogger was in a mood...

2006-12-21T15:35:00.000-06:00

I've had several ideas for posts over the past couple of days, but Blogger has been extremely uncooperative. Now that I'm actually able to get on, I can't think of anything interesting to say, go figure. Sunday we're heading down to the coast to have Christmas with my in-laws. I think it will be fun, but we only get to stay 3 days. I'm currently cooking a chicken (momma, you should've seen me trying to remember how to separate the breasts) so I can make enchiladas for his work Christmas party. Then, for Christmas lunch/dinner, I was asked to make my favorite, the Green-Bean Casserole. Two days ago I made brownies for my honey and the morning before that I made Lemon-PoppySeed muffins. Who am I (Ms Suzie Homemaker)??
On the job front, I still haven't had that phone interview. The weather in New Mexico got pretty bad, and all non-necessary employees were sent home. But, I think I might be hearing something today... *crosses fingers*
Other than that, nothing else new, besides a few more completed applications.

Jobs Applied For: 14
Rejections: 1
Call-Backs: 1
Accepted: 0

The Great American Novel

2006-12-18T20:53:00.000-06:00

So, here's another Family Guy skit that I really like. It's a little over two minutes, but Stewie is just so funny! And, R has started sounding like this when he asks me about my "Job Search" progress...

Christmas Traditions

2006-12-17T18:59:00.000-06:00

Even my mediocre feelings towards the holidays this year couldn't keep me from buying a tree. This time I actually had family members to help decorate it. The evening before my graduation, I took my little sister to Lowe's to help me pick out a tree. Until then, I hadn't even taken my "Christmas" storage box out of the shed.
Here are my MIL (left) and mom (right) putting ornaments on the tree. It was strange watching other people put my ornaments on my tree (I tend to be very controlling over my decorations), but I was so, so happy they were here! When I thought about it, it's been 6 years since I've decorated a tree with anyone besides R!

This was some artsy thing R tried to do by wiggling the camera. Eh, whatever.

This is probably my most favorite "ornament." It's called "Santa's Band" and it's made up of 7 bears and santa playing the bells. They actually turn on their base and strike the bells to play "35 songs." Actually, it only plays the first minute of each song, just enough for them to be recognizable. I don't even know how long this has been in my family (maybe since around 93), but I didn't get it until 2001 (when dad was packing their house stuff, he got rid of a lot of their Christmas stuff). Every year I set it up with the same garland and "icicle lights." Last year I added the little houses (I painted them). I usually only play it a few times during the holidays, but it's funny how ingrained those songs are-I can even tell you what song is next after a whole year of not hearing it!
Finally, this is the tree on campus. This is the first time one has been set up, and it was pretty nice. I kinda like the way my camera wiggle made the lights look like little Cs!

Jobs Applied For: 10
Rejections: 1
Call-Backs: 1 !!! (Will do a phone interview this week! YAY!)
Accepted: 0

Christmas "Quizzes"

2006-12-17T18:46:00.000-06:00

You Are a Snowman

Friendly and fun, you enjoy bringing holiday cheer to everyone you know!

What Christmas Ornament Are You?

You Are Comet

A total daredevil, you're the reindeer with an edge!

Why You're Naughty: You almost gave Santa a heart attack when you took him sky diving

Why You're Nice: You always make sure the sleigh is going warp speed

Which of Santa's Reindeer Are You?

Random

2006-12-15T14:39:00.000-06:00

Reconnecting with old friends. What a nice thing MySpace has done for me. Over the course of 2 days I've been contacted by 2 girls I used to know back in high school. One of them was our across-the-street neighbor and the other was a good friend who was in colorguard with me (I've known her since, like 4th grade). We've only had initial contact, but it's interesting to see that these people went through the trouble of "finding" me!
This might be one of those things that you're not supposed to talk about, but we got a notice from the IRS yesterday. Apparently, one of our forms was filled out incorrectly (we have a friend who does our paperwork for us) and I have to go back and fill out another 1040 (the 1040X). It's not a big deal, just kind of annoying, especially since we're only a few months away from filing our NEW tax returns. I don't think the new forms will affect us much, although we may end up getting/giving a little more... we'll see.
Today I mooched at yet another Free Meal. I didn't even know about it until 11:15 (it started at 11:30) and I had already bought a sandwich at Wendy's. But, I went anyways, and yum, yum, yum! It was a pot-luck thing, though, and I felt a little guilty about not bringing anything. Fortunately, there was a LOT of food--turkey, ham, 3 different dressings, 4 different veggies, green bean casserole, 3 types of pasta salad, and oodles of desserts--so my guilt didn't last too long!
Not much new on the Job Front (besides the aggravating variations in "application processes"). Thanks for your well-wishes, I really appreciate them!

Jobs Applied For: 10
Rejections: 1
Call-Backs: 0
Accepted: 0

Waiting, Patiently

2006-12-13T21:17:00.000-06:00

As of January 3, I will "officially" be an Intermittant Research Assistant in the same lab I've been working in for the past 3 years (1 year as a student worker, 2 years as a grad student). It's not exactly what I had hoped for, but it does ease some of the stress while I'm looking everywhere for a job (any job). The position is only available for 3 months, max, so it's not like I can get lazy again and just stay in my Comfort Zone. It's just long enough for me to send out as many applications as I want, and to wait paitiently for call-backs and interviews.
I'm now up to my 3rd Resume Version. It started with the "generic" resume including a little "splattering" of everything. Then, I upgraded to a Curriculum Vitae that includes more details of my coursework and lab experiences. Finally, today, I wrote up my "official" federal resume. This one has to include my SSN, information about citizenship (Yes) and veteran's preference (No), and more details about my previous employment (including supervisor's names and contact info). Of course, there are still those odd jobs that require their very own version of a resume (fill in the blanks), or that want you to print out their application and fill it out (by hand).
Now, if only I could stop chatting with the guys in the office and spend the 4-6 hours actually doing application stuff! Oh, and we're starting to really consider Albuquerque as the place to go, because, you know, cheap-to-free rent is something you just can't pass up!

Jobs Applied For: 6
Rejections: 1
Call-Backs: 0
Accepted: 0

I did it!

2006-12-10T20:56:00.000-06:00

It's finally done. I have graduated. Friday afternoon, before the commencement ceremony, we took some pictures by the chapel. I think I look silly in this pic, but I like that you can see the colors of my hood. The "sienna" is for my college (Forest Resources) and the maroon and white are for my university (Mississippi State).

Here are me and R after the ceremony. Fortunately, the whole think only lasted about 1.5 hours, although we had to get there an hour earlier than that. Doesn't he look so handsome in that suit?!

This is my mom. I know, I know, I look a lot like her. Of course, I would never perm my hair! :)

This is my little sister, Ruthie. Isn't she a cutie! Now, if only we could convince her to stand up straight all the time--she's at least 3 or 4 inches taller than me (and only 14)!

My MIL also came down, but I didn't get any good pics with her (my camera was messing up). Now that I'm officially finished, I have to find a job. As soon as we're moved and settled somewhere (anywhere) else, all I can say is: R, it's your turn! Why does he look so goofy in this pic? I guess it's that "guilty smirk" or something?

Expecting Visitors

2006-12-06T21:15:00.000-06:00

Tomorrow morning I will be driving a few hours to pick up my mom and sister! I got 95% of my housecleaning done today (everything but the dog bath & bathroom). Of course, once R got home, the place looked like I hadn't done anything! Anyways, sometime tomorrow afternoon my MIL will be here, too. How great is that?! Then R's aunt, uncle, & cousins will be here friday evening (right before graduation).
I feel so fortunate to have so many people who care about me and want to be here to support me. Since Friday will be an extremely busy day, we're planning a family cookout thing at our house Saturday afternoon. Everyone will be going home on Sunday. It will be a really quick weekend, but I think it will be a great time!
On another note, I took my last exam yesterday. I think I did okay on it, but you just never know about these things. I also boxed up my stuff in the office and cleaned out my "leftovers" from the lab. For now I can just relax. Next week, the real work begins. Then. Then, I will have to find a job.
Thanks y'all for your comments. Nothing (new) big with the sister, just that dad finally got the keys (house & car) from her and she picked up her stuff (clothes, books, & etc) from the house. I also heard a few things that have given me some very sad revalations about her. (I just don't want to talk about it right now.)

I Guess This is IT

2006-12-05T12:09:00.000-06:00

I mean that in more ways than one.
First, for the Sister Stuff. I called the guy's phone again last night, and whaddya know, he actually answered. Here was our interaction:
Him: Hello (very gruff)
Me: Hello, is this T***?
Him: Yeah, who is THIS?
Me: This is Celina, Jeannie's sister. It's very important that I talk to her, is she there?
Him: Her sister? The one from Mississippi?
Me: Yes.
Him: Yeah, hold on.
(mumble, mumble)
Jeannie: Hello (oh, the attitude was just dripping off that word).

All I really told her is that I had heard what she did, and I had "nothing" to say about it. But, if she could stop thinking about herself for one second, she needs to realize that she owes it to mom & dad to talk to them. I told her that they weren't necessarily mad, just extremely concerned. "As far as we knew, you could've been dead in a ditch somewhere!" I told her there were other issues that they needed to sort through before she decided to remove herself from our lives, and it was extremely important that she call dad. I asked if she had anything to say, and all she said was "No." She did say that she would "try" to call them today. I told her that I cared so much about her, and it was "nice knowing you," and that I hope whatever decisions she makes for herself that she has a "great life."
Me: Iis that all? You really don't have anything to say?
Her: No.
Me: Well, that's really sad. Bye.
And, I hung up the phone. The whole conversation was less than 3 minutes. I don't know if she really will call them, but it's out of my hands. At least she knows that we all know. We know she's alive.
I think the worst part of it was her voice. I've never heard such contempt and attitude from anyone! I felt like everything I thought I knew about her was made up of lies. She is her mother! And, I wish she read this, because I want her to know that. The person she's claimed to "hate" (after never visiting them in MS and backing out of a visit for her graduation this summer) is the exact person she is. And, that's very very sad.
I don't know if I'll call her again. I mean, if she wanted to get in touch with me, she knows how. But I feel like there are so many things I need to say to her. I feel like we (the family) deserve to know why she hates us so much.
All I can hope is that when the smoke clears, she's safe, we're safe, and life will go on. I guess you just can't protect your heart, no matter how hard you try. I love her so much, and I don't think she even knows that.
Mom just called and said that she told Gary (my brother, Jeannie's "full-blood" brother) about my conversation with her last night. He got very upset so mom is on her way to see him now. He's so much stronger than Jeannie and cut his own mother out of his life after only 2 years. (He called her one day and told her how much he hated her for hurting him & Jeannie for so long, and that he didn't want to hear from her again. He even told Jeannie that if she came to her graduation, he would not see her.) I can't imagine how much it hurts him to see that his sister is the same person. I'm sorry, bro, I love you.
I had some other stuff to talk about, but this took longer than I though and I really need to go over my notes a few more times. I have my last final (ever?) at 3:00, and this one is killer! ACK! Quick, tell me everything you know about PCR, cloning vectors, genomic libraries, and recombination!

The Sister Update

2006-12-04T18:13:00.000-06:00

Still no word from Jeannie, but at least we know she's still alive (she was at work today). Mom and dad went to her work and took the car (it's "hidden" somewhere now). (They didn't go in or see her at all.) And, she was scheduled to work today at a time that she's "supposed to" be in class. So, I guess that answers that question.
I called her 2 best friends today, and they were very sweet, and offered a little help. Neither of them has heard from her (one last talked to her on Thursday, the other on Saturday) either. The one thing I did manage to "get" out of them is that it is a guy, and that she's moved into an apartment with him (Jeannie had told them that mom & dad knew about it). They seemed very upset that she left like that, and they were surprised that none of us knew anything about it (the guy or the apartment).
I don't know who this guy is, and mom said she's heard his name, but never met him. Apparently, he works with Jeannie and is "a little older" than her. Mom thinks he may be one of the "guys" she's talked about being "into drugs." So, some of my assumptions are true. But, there are still many things left unknown. I did get the guy's phone number from one of the friends, but there was no answer when I called earlier. I'm thinking I'll try again, although I get the feeling he'll be screening his calls.
Anyways, I know this sounds selfish, but I am so mad that she had to do this right now! I don't think mom & Ruthie will be coming for my graduation. Like I said before, the three of them were planning on coming together, but obviously that isn't going to happen. Plane tickets might just be a little too much, and mom is very worried about leaving the house unattended for even a few days. I accept that she's decided that this is what she wants to do with her life (screw it up), but I hate that she has to do it in a way that affects the rest of us so much! Okay, that does sound selfish, but what I mean is that I believe every person has a right to make their own decisions (whether anyone else agrees with them or not). But, I DO NOT believe a person is allowed to make decisions that can/will hurt other people!
What if this guy really is trouble and his "enemies" start to cause trouble for the rest of my family? What if he convinces her (or she decides on her own) that mom & dad are terrible people and it would be okay to trash their house? Maybe that just the Soap Opera inside my head, but hey, you never know about people! (Did y'all hear about that woman who put her baby in the microwave and killed it? Or the woman who had a fight with her boyfriend and lit him on fire while he was sleeping? Or the 12-year-old girl who set her mom on fire while she was sleeping, then ran off with her 2 younger siblings?) But, that's a whole other thing. You just don't know about people!
Well, I appreciate your comments, and I'll keep you posted on what's going on.

What Have You Done Little Sister?

2006-12-03T20:33:00.000-06:00

This morning I got a phone call from my mom. A very sad and dissapointing call. My little sister, Jeannie (remember, she came to visit me this summer:
Sister,Sister, Medieval Times, Around Campus, Vacation Plan) has moved out. I had a feeling this would happen eventually, but I had really hoped she would at least TRY to be an adult about it. Instead, she came home late from work (around 11) last night, told mom she was home and "went to bed." This morning, when she wasn't in her room, mom went in to find a NOTE left on her bed. It pretty much said that she was tired of being treated like a kid (she's 20) and all she wanted to do was be able to go out with her friends and have fun. She didn't want to have to tell mom & dad where she was going, where she had been, or who she was with. She said that she was "sorry" it "had to be like this," but she didn't know how else to tell them. She also said that she would go to the house today to get her stuff.
Apparently, she was scheduled to get off work between 3 & 4. When she wasn't home by 4:30, dad went to see if she was still there, and her car was parked outside her work. Mom called to talk to her, but nobody answered the phone. It's now nearly 8 (their time), and there has been NO WORD from her.
I am extremely sad and hurt by all of this. Who knows how long she has been lying to all of our faces: "I love you, everything is fine." And EXACTLY what are her reasons for leaving? Is it a GUY? A GIRL? Are mom & dad really that unbearable? (I know they do get a little annoying sometimes, but they really are good people.) Is she even in school (or has all that been lies too)?
See, I have a lot of "feelings" about some things that she's been getting into, and it's not a very good road she's headed down. I know for sure that she drinks & parties. I also know that she "sleeps around" (but to what extent?). I think she may be into drugs, and maybe other "extracurricular activities." But I think she's just one of those people who thinks all of that is okay. (I know lots of people feel that way, but I never have.) She's also gotten piercings and tattoos (when she was underage) then lied to mom & dad about them.
I know mom & dad are mad and really HURT, but I was mostly concerned for my baby sister, Ruthie (14). But, after talking to her this afternoon, she almost sounds "relieved." Jeannie has been using her as a "sounding board" when (I guess) none of her friends are available. So, my 14-year-old sister has been hearing ALL about the WANDERINGS of her 20-year-old big sister!
I just pray that the mistakes Jeannie is making (and is going to make) are not the kind you can't TAKE BACK! Tonight I've tried texting her (her preferred method of communication) and calling, but can't get through. In fact, she told mom & dad that her phone had been cancelled. But, when I called the message said "At the subscriber's request, this phone is not acceping incoming calls." And, there's no option to leave a message.
A little back story: About 3 years ago (about a year after they moved to NM), Jeannie had gotten in a "little" trouble. One of her co-workers (a guy who already had a 1-year-old and another on the way) was getting "involved" with her. The only way mom & dad found out about it was when his girlfriend (or ex) kept calling the house harassing mom & dad & threatening Jeannie! Mom & dad were so mad they told her to GET OUT! But, when they actually saw the guy, they realized that she'd probably end up pregnant, knocking back on their door in no time, so they told him to get the HELL out and "punished" her. I think the punishment included her quitting her job, and being banned from the car.
I know all of this may seem like "normal" teenage rebellion or whatever, but there's more to the story. I think I've talked about it before, but here goes. When I was a sophomore in high school, mom & dad got a call from her mom (my dad--step-dad, technically, is her bio-dad) saying that she "couldn't" take care of "his kids" anymore & they needed to go get them. So, they rented a uhaul and drove 12 hours to Orlando, FL, packed up their stuff and brought them home. That was back in 1997 (wow, it seems like SO MUCH longer ago than just 9 years). Since then, they've been provided with everything any kid could need. Mom & dad even busted tail to get Jeannie CLOSE to caught up in school (she graduated this summer at 19-years-old). She has new glasses, had braces for a year (just got them off last month), and dad even co-signed for her NEW FREAKIN CAR (I got an 11-year-old pickup truck when I graduated)!! She has never been spanked, grounded (besides after her "episode" with that one guy), or deprived of ANYTHING.
So, it's not like she's kept under "lock & key" and she's whipped every night before bed. Heck, she's never even been given a "curfew" (I wasn't allowed out on school nights and I had to be home by 11 on weekends--12 on prom night)! So, where does she get off?
What would you do if this was your daughter? Should she be allowed to take whatever of "her stuff" she wants (i.e. TV, radio, laptop, furniture, etc), or just the stuff she's bought with her money (i.e. clothes, CDs, etc)? Should mom & dad change the locks so that she can't come in the house unless they're there? What if she tries to "sneak in" tonight after their in bed, or tomorrow when they're all at work/school to get "her stuff?" Finally, what about the car? I seriously doubt she will be able to keep up payments for long (she has NO IDEA about the price tag that comes with ADULTHOOD), and it would end up falling on dad. Should he just take the car and give her their other car (the 6-year-old Kia she was going to buy from them before she got the new car)?
Anyways, I just needed to get all this off my chest. It's a new development in my Family Saga, and it will be "interesting" to see how things unfold. Thanks for listening.

The Final Countdown

2006-12-02T19:35:00.000-06:00

At my "Farewell Lunch" yesterday, as we (8) sat and placed our drink orders (sweet teas, all around), I heard this song playing over the speakers... It was the Rocky IV Theme Song, "Final Countdown" (apparently by the band Europe). Go ahead, look it up, you'll recognize it, I'm sure! Nevermind, I'll just get it and put it up here for you...
Let's see if my little venture into html works (nah, it didn't work, so I'll just use Castpost, whatever). Okay, I'm going to try this ONE MORE time (I didn't realize that was the music-only version)!! This time I'm getting really mad! That only works if you are reading my blog on MY computer... and now Castpost isn't working! ARGH! Now blogger doesn't even have the "quick buttons" for me to put in a link & I can't find a darn html for it, so you'll just have to look it up yourself, if you're so inclined...
Now things are starting to work again...

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Anyways, I just thought that song was entirely appropriate for the occasion, as did the rest of my group. The lunch was nice, and I was happy that everyone (minus the one person with whom I do not get along) was there and enjoying themselves. The 4 student workers are relatively new, and I haven't spent much time in the lab this semester, so this was my first chance to sit around and chat with all of them together. They're all really nice "kids" and I wish they had been there when I was a student worker (back then, there were only 2 of us)! We had an interesting conversation, covering topics such as childhood diseases, haunted houses, the COLD weather, and cartoons.

Well, I was in the middle of studying when I got the urge to post this, so I better get back to work. Saturday is usually my housecleaning day, but my NEED for some SERIOUS studying, and the fact that I KNOW the house will get dirty by next Thurs--when my family is getting in, convinced me to just wait until next week. I think Wednesday is a good day. I'll just cram it in there between: Show Doc where all my DNA is in the lab, get rid of my old media (and other useless lab stuff), and box up junk from my cubicle (it's unbelievable how much stuff I've managed to cram in there, and in only 4 months)!
It's weird to think that after next weekend, I can PICK which days to do my housecleaning! Today, R told me that he is "excited" to finally have a "little housewife" (for a few weeks anyways) to do the cleaning & cooking... Okay, he only said that as a JOKE, so please, don't any of the women of his family HURT him! :)

Old Man Winter

2006-11-30T09:25:00.000-06:00

For the past several weeks, our weather consisted of temps around the mid 70s, 50-60% humidity (hello frizz), sometimes clear, sometimes cloudy skies, and few few scattered showers. But, after today all that will change. Our forecast says that tonight we will drop below freezing, and our high for tomorrow will be in the mid 40s! The rest of the weekend, we're supposed to be in the low to mid 50s. I was so excited when I saw that front start moving through Texas & Oklahoma, and I can't hardly wait for it to get here!
Out of curiosity, I checked out the weather in Livingston, MT, and this cute little sun is smiling in spite of the negative wind chill factor!

Oh, and my mom called R the other night to "inform" him of the record lows some areas of Montana have been experiencing! She went on to tell him that New Mexico has been averaging between 40-50 degrees. Are we ready for those kinds of winters? Okay, okay, I know I've talked about that before, but now it's really almost time!
Okay, off subject, but whatever, how great is this: I get a Free Dinner tonight (at one of our town's fanciest restaurants, Harvey's, and OMG, let me tell you about their New York Strip!), and a Free Lunch tomorrow (at one of my favorite restaurants, The Grill, where OMG they have the best ever fried cheese!). Both restauarants are "owned" by the same company, and they really are that good! Harvey's is curtesy of the Forest Products Society (I've had a pic of these guys before, but can't seem to find it now), and The Grill is my "Farewell Lunch" with my coworkers in the lab! I know this probably sounds a little greedy, but I wish my "Farewell Lunch" had been any other day, because I already had a Free Lunch scheduled on Friday (for this school group I participate in)!
Oh, how I will miss the Free Food (you know, once I'm no longer a student)!

Gift Horse

2006-11-29T19:53:00.000-06:00

You know that saying, "Don't look a gift horse in the mouth." Have you ever thought about what that means?
According to Bartleby, it means:
"Don’t question the value of a gift. The proverb refers to the practice of evaluating the age of a horse by looking at its teeth. This practice is also the source of the expression 'long in the tooth,' meaning old."
Anyways, I've been asked by at least 2 family members what I want for a "graduation gift." And, honestly, I can't think of a thing. I know it may sounde rude, or ungrateful, but all I can think about is the fact that in less than 2 weeks I will be out of a job. The weight of our bills, groceries, and "entertainment" will fall entirely on R's shoulders, and that worries me more than anything. So, family and friends, if you feel so inclined (and believe me, I don't expect to get anything), I would not be offended by gift cards (Walmart, restaurants, etc) or cash. Trust me, they will go to good use! Of course, if you want to get something else, by all means, I won't turn a down any gift! :)

On another note, I finally got my final corrections in and approved. I turned in my final paperwork, and am all clear for graduation (well, besides the paper & 2 finals I have next week)! Not that I was pushing any limits, you know, the deadline was this Friday!
I think a few family members are planning to come for my graduation, and that makes me happy, too. R was the only person who was able to go to my 1st graduation (Dec 04), so it would be awesome for my mom & sisters (and R's mom & other family members) to be here! But then that leaves me with trying to find (interesting) things for them to do while they're here! I think we could manage, though, and I would love to have the chance to show off My MSU!

Turkey Holiday

2006-11-27T20:48:00.000-06:00

We had a fantastic time in Shreveport. Of course, I took a ton of pictures, and it was hard for me to pic my favorites (and be fair to all the adorable kids).
First up is the one I call "a little ham." She grins and makes eye contact everytime she sees a camera, and that makes for some adorable pics. R had his hands full with the 3 kids, and enjoyed every minute of it!

Little boy is not as hammy as his sister, but oh, so adorable! Here, they were enjoying Lilo and Stitch on the way home from the park. I guess R wasn't that into the movie?

I like the way this pic makes Little boy look like he has a precious little red mullett! And, who can keep from smiling at the mixture of laughter, anxiety, and utter joy on his face?

I can't leave Stewie out. But, since I've put lots of pics of him on here before, I'm limiting his exposure to this one. Poor little guy just did NOT like the slide! We tried every size, shape, and direction, but the little guy just.would.not. do.it!

And, finally, the Little Ham again. I think her momma was surprised by how cute (and utterly perfect) this picture turned out. To tell you the truth, so am I, but hey, when you're gifted, you're gifted! :)

I hope y'all had a fantastic holiday, and I can't wait to get back to reading all about it!

Uninspired

2006-11-22T11:08:00.000-06:00

I haven't felt much like blogging lately. I have so many unfinished projects that need tending that by the time I have a few free minutes, I don't even want to look at a computer. Last weekend we went to Gulfport so that R could "save the day" (fix his mom's car). This morning I took Guapo to the vet (he'll be boarding there for nearly a week). And, this evening we're driving to Shreveport, LA. It's about a 5-6 hour drive, and I have a TON of things to do before we go.
R's aunt and uncle are hosting Thanksgiving at their house this year, so we'll be gone until Sunday or Monday. I'm looking forward to visiting with the extended family, especially since I don't have to cook!
My job search is underway, and I sent out my first application yesterday. Graduation is right around the corner, and I can't believe how many things I have to finish before then: Large homework/project assignment, 1 powerpoint presentation (it's next Wed, and I haven't even started on it), and a 7-10 page paper (that I only have the rough outline together).
Well, I need to get something productive done before R gets home, where should I start: Bathroom, Living Room, Kitchen, Bedroom?
I don't know if I'll be up for blogging while I'm gone on vacation, so if I don't "talk" to ya before then, I hope y'all have a fantastic Thanksgiving and enjoy your holiday/family/food!!

The Family Guy

2006-11-17T16:42:00.000-06:00

A few weeks ago I was "introduced" to Family Guy. I think I've tried watching the show before, but it was just too something and I didn't like it. This time, though, was different. We've now watched several episodes and I just can't get enough. I think it's just the silly-nothing-ness that gets me. You know, sometimes you just need to zone out and laugh a little.

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Worst Meal, EVER!

2006-11-16T09:59:00.000-06:00

Last night, R and I went to Chilis for dinner. We've had poor service at just about every restaurant in town, including Chilis. But last night topped them all!
We started out by waiting 10 minutes for our server to take our drink order: two waters. 5 minutes later they were brought to us (but we weren't asked for our food order). 10 minutes later the server returned and asked if we were "ready to order." We were, so we ordered their "take two" meal which includes 2 meats (we chose the house sirloin & honey sirloin) and 2 veggies (steamed veggies & mashed potatoes). We asked for it to be brought out on 2 plates (house sirloin + potatoes, honey sirloin + steamed veggies). I also ordered a cesaer side salad. 10 minutes later, I got the salad and the server realized that we didn't have silverware. We got our silverware, I finished my salad, then about 20 minutes later, our server told us that one of the steaks was done, and it would only be "a few more minutes" until our food was brought out. 5 minutes later our food came out. I had to ask for a refill on my water, and we asked for A-1 sauce. By the time those were brought those to us, we had realized that we hadn't been asked how we wanted our steaks cooked, and they were well-done. (We usually get medium, or medium-rare.) Not only were they overcooked and tough, they were also extremely dry, and barely warm! R told the server that the meat didn't look good, and why hadn't we been asked how we wanted them cooked. The server told us that "they normally come cooked like that." R said he wasn't happy, and could we please speak to the manager. The manager and server came back out and we explained that we weren't happy about waiting 25 minutes to order and another 30 minutes for our food. We weren't happy about the server's job (we had to ask for refills and we weren't asked how we wanted our steaks cooked). And, we weren't happy with the FOOD itself. The manager offered a free dessert or discount off our meal, and we could just let the server know when we were finished. So, we attempted to eat the tough steaks and cold veggies, but it really was that bad. Besides the crappy steaks, everything else was terrible, too. R's mashed potatoes were burnt on the bottom, cold in the middle, and the cheese on top had that crusty look that cheese gets when it's been sitting out. And, my steamed veggies included burnt broccoli (how do you burn steamed broccoli?) and cold carrot and bell pepper slivers. We both took a few bites of our respective veggies and steaks, debated on if we could even eat the nasty food, and waved for our server. We explained that the food was terrible and we were too angry (and hungry) to wait for new food (yeah, like they wouldn't SPIT in it after all THIS) and we didn't feel like we should pay for it. The server left and came back with a zeroed-out check.
Being the nice guy that he is, R still left a $2 tip.
I've been very non-descript in the details of the server and manager. I've had bad service (not nearly this bad) from all kinds of people, but I'm curious if y'all would guess that our server was a man or woman. I don't know if that has anything to do with the attitude and bad service we had, or maybe the person was just having a bad day. Either way, it will be a long time before I eat at this Chilis again. Now I'm wondering if I should go to Chilis "corporate" and complain.
Have you ever had worse service than this? What did you do about it?

Patience is a Virtue

2006-11-14T11:10:00.000-06:00

Someone very close to me is having serious issues at work. He vents to me, and I vent to you.
R works at a local furniture store as a warehouse and delivery guy. His job includes unloading furniture from semi-trucks, stocking the warehouse racks with inventory, moving and setting up the displays on the floor, loading purchased furniture into people's vehicles, and delivering to towns up to 3 hours away. He also has to do "general maintenance" like sweeping, mopping, and yard work. R has been at this job for 3 1/2 years and somewhat enjoys it (he's good at EVERYTHING). The building/business is owned by his boss JC. JC is out of town a lot for business, so CG is the "lady in charge." This spring, a new guy JH, was transferred from another store (that JC also owns) and given the position of "warehouse manager." Practically from day 1, JH has "had it out" for R. We'll just sum it up to a "personality conflict," because R has NEVER had a problem with a previous manager/boss/coworker (at this job, or any other), and JH doesn't fight with any of the other employees.
Let me also say that R is a VERY hard worker. He's polite to the customers, considerate of his coworkers, doesn't miss work or request off (very often), and does his job without needing constant supervision. Besides the salespeople and CG ("lady in charge"), only one other employee has been there longer (by a few months) than R. There are also between 3 and 6 "part-time guys" who tend to be college students.
Okay, back to JH. I don't even know where to start, so I'll just give you a few examples of the "Wrath of JH." One time R and another guy were getting some stuff together for a delivery. They were pulling and organizing boxes and getting ready to load the truck. JH came along and TOLD R to put some labels on some other boxes. R said "Okay, I'll do that as soon as we're finished." JH walked away. He came back about 5 minutes later and asked why R hadn't done what he asked. R explained that they were "almost finished" and he'd do it in "just a second." JH got very close to R and told him that he NEEDED to do it RIGHT NOW. And, if he didn't want to do the job he was told to do, he could just get in his f***ing truck and GO HOME! (Yes, those words!) A few more words were exchanged, and R said that they should take this conversation to JC (he was in town that week). JH kinda got nervous, but managed to explain that he knew he was "out of line" to JC and apologized (to JC, not R--he has NEVER apologized to R).
They've had a few more little run-ins since then, but nothing big... until last week. R pretty much goes on every.single delivery. In fact, one of the salesladies personally requested that he be on all of her deliveries. Well, this day R was supposed to go on a delivery, but JH told him that two other guys were going and he needed to "go do yardwork." (For these guys, yardwork=punishment. I mean, WHO mows their grass and weedeats in November?!) R didn't argue or say anything (although he was surprised). When lunchtime rolled around (11:30) JH told R that he HAD TO take lunch. Usually, the guys who are on delivery will stop somewhere in the town they're delivering to and grab lunch on the road. Also, the furniture store is about 10 miles from the closest town, so they would have to drive a little ways (through town, in lunch-hour traffic), eat, and be back in 30 minutes. Anyways, JH "explained" to R that he didn't want R on the truck anymore because sometimes the other guys didn't want to eat on the road, and it was like R was "forcing" them to stop (does that even make sense?). THEN, he said "Besides, once you're on the truck, you go and JACK OFF all day and don't get back until 4:30 (when they close)!" He said this in front of TWO other employees!
There are other stories I could tell, but these will do for my purposes. So, the problem here is obvious, right. JH and R just can't get along. What's worse is that JH may be "demoted" when the previous "warehouse manager" comes back in January, and I believe JH will do everything in his power to "take R down." I think he's pushing all of R's buttons to make him QUIT. But, when he realized that won't work (R is very, very stubborn), I don't see any reason he wouldn't just FIRE him. JH has told R several times that he has a "problem with authority." (He could be telling the boss all kinds of crap.) I just want R to tell him (heck, I'D tell him) that "I don't have a problem with authority, I have a problem with YOU!"
Right now is NOT a good time for R to not have a job. I mean, after December I won't be getting a paycheck (unless by some Miracle I find a job SOON), and we'll be moving (eventually). And, R gets paid pretty good for what he does. And, you'd hope that 4 years in a job would provide you with at least some kind of References (for future jobs). So now the debate is if R should explain to his boss (JC) that he likes his job, and honestly can't afford to leave. Or should he just "wait it out" because we'll be leaving soon anyways (he can tell JH to go to hell and just not use his boss as a reference)? I feel so guilty when R come home mad (or calls in the middle of the day to vent), because I'm the reason he's stuck at that job with that idiot! I'm the reason he has to put up with JH's attitude.
So, what would you do? Do you think a 4-year employer is that important as a reference? Should R just focus on the people there who do appreciate his work (the salespeople like him a lot, as do several of his coworkers)? Should he just look for another job here, knowing that we could be moving at any time?
Sorry this turned out so long, I just needed to release some of my frustrations. Remember, I've had my own issues with personality conflicts.

Crude Humor

2006-11-12T22:51:00.000-06:00

Have you ever heard/seen the comedian Dane Cook? I've seen him a few times on Comedy Central, but I guess I never stayed awake long enough to watch a whole routine. Somehow this particular speel has snuck past me, but now that I've "discovered" it I can't get enough! Thanks Dane Cook, for adding more Humor Ammo to my vocabulary! WHOPPER! WHOPPER NO ONION! **Oh, and if you're easily offended (by "bad" language) you might want to skip this one! No, REALLY, it is THAT bad! And, I would suggest you NOT watch this while at work, eating, drinking, or holding a small child.**

Excuse Me, Are My Brains Showing?

2006-11-09T09:05:00.000-06:00

I feel like everything in my head just got scrambled up with a whisk, a mixer, no no, a blender. And, I may not regain control until I've been able to obtain 6-8 hours of mindless nothing--you know, like watching Family Guy, playing Mario & Luigi, or um sleeping.

Okay, let me explain. As you may recall, I had a Molecular Biology exam this morning (at 7:45 to be exact). I had studied for it previously, but nothing was sinking in. Actually, we even had new material added on Tuesday. Well, for the past two days, I've been avoiding everything Mol Bio, but last night I realized that I probably should at least take another look. So, I stayed up until, maybe 10 (that's the problem with studying in bed) looking over everything and redrawing all my diagrams. That's it. I came up with a few "analogies" for remembering details: Like, the binding sequence of initiator proteins in Class 2 genes (Dog, Bog, Frog, hE-HA). Okay that looks really silly when I type it here, but it made sense last night, and I actually remembered it for the test today, and that's what matters!

The amount (and details) of material we're expected to KNOW for this class is really unbelievable. And, if I had taken this as an undergrad (it's a split-level), I'm sure I would've had to repeat it. This test in particular would've done me in. So what's the difference between Celina the Undergrad, and Celina the Master's degree Candidate? Is it just the easier class schedule? Is it the increasingly brighter light at the end of the tunnel? Or am I just older, more motivated, and hell-bent on getting out of here? Whatever the case, I'm just glad that's over with. Now it's time to focus on the other things that I have to take care of. Yeah, like my 2 presentations, Homework assignement/project, and Thesis corrections for the library. No biggie.

Please, just look away while I pick up my scattered brains.